Thanks for coming, everyone; hopefully this ad will pique your interest and maybe, just maybe, we’ll both find what we’re looking for :) Let’s get into it!

What I’m Looking For A male-led, taken-in-hand lifestyle relationship. Not a side thing, not some one and done, and not something that starts online because of distance and stays online because it’s just a fantasy and you never meant it to be a real, actual relationship. (I'm glad I got that out of the way). So I’m looking for something that has a kink structure but also has a vanilla crossover. I like to wake up to orders and instructions, be micromanaged and examined, spanked and humiliated, but I also want to go on nice trips, meet your friends and family, and snuggle while we watch Netflix. Think of a 1950s lifestyle, but more modern, ideally with heavy TPE overtones, as that tends to leave me the most fulfilled. I’m open to relocation for a good fit after we’ve talked for some time. It wouldn’t be immediate, but it is on the table.

About Me: In purely ‘talking shop’ terminology, I describe myself as a service submissive. I’m a mostly bubbly girly girl with some ditz thrown in for good measure. I’m a quick study with a bit of a sassy mouth, and can sometimes be a bit of a brat (but usually very rarely, especially with a strict owner). Some things I enjoy are cooking, shopping, getting dressed up, crocheting, drawing, reading, astrophysics, long walks to nowhere, hopelessly vying for my cat’s love and affection, the feeling of a fresh set of sheets, bubble baths, being praised, having my eyebrows petted, and watching the same show on repeat. Physically I’m 5’5”, cute as a button, and chubby. I’m Latina (so lightly tanned) with dark longish wavy brown hair and brown eyes. If you’d like to see a picture, feel free to ask. But please don’t just message me ‘send pic’. Some big picture bullet points: I’m single, monogamous, never married, no kids, live with a roommate, has a job, has two cats (one evil, one just a derp), has a driver’s license, doesn’t have COVID, vaccinated, and doesn’t have STDs/STIs.

About You: We all have needs, wants, and preferences, and the list version of some of my big ones is below. These are just some general guidelines, so if you don’t check every single box exactly but still feel we’d be a good fit, message me anyway and show me.

· Single

· Monogamous

· Age 25-45

· Dominant

· Gainfully employed

· No serious/unmedicated mental health issues

· Knows what they want from a dynamic

· Looking for something IRL and long-term

· Sends a chat message

· Doesn’t use dominance as an excuse for abuse, trauma, or misogyny

The Fun Stuff: My broad kinks include:

· 24/7 TPE

· Wardrobe control

· Meal/Exercise control

· Orgasm control

· Impact play

· DDlg

· Praise

· Humiliation/Degradation

· Anal/Anal training

· Micromanagement

· Pet play

· Rules

· CNC

Some things I have no interest in/are my limits: blood, vomit, extreme sadism, animals, children, scat

Thanks for sticking with me and powering through my long ad. Also, please note I work non-traditional hours, so if I don’t respond right away don’t think it’s because I’m not going to, it’s because I’ll do so once I have some downtime. Good luck in your search out there!