Hello,

Although the title does cover the ad, there’s quite a lot more to discover, so let’s delve a bit deeper. And I know it’s not exactly following etiquette to write about myself first, but I assume that in the world of internet-ads one has to take his liberties.

I’m Harold; and as per the title a 42 year young man who resides in Europe. Even better, I’ve reached a point in life where I’m happy. I have a job that I love (and pays reasonably well), I’m in the end stages of renovating my house where I live together with my cat and I keep busy with music, writing, friends, food, wine, art, museums, reading and working out. Lookswise I’m a cleaned-up biker: I’m broad-shouldered, 1m78 (that’s 5’11”), have tattoos and a beard. As far as character goes: I love to laugh en joke around but when push comes to shove, I’m a serious man who wholeheartedly believes everything is solvable with patience, a calm attitude and a bit of thinking. I work in a very crisis-prone environment and the ability to stay cool-headed and decisive has proven to work very well. I do pride myself in having a set of standards and principles that I will adhere to - since I have god nor master, I’m responsible for myself.

I don’t know who you are: perhaps you want to explore the world of kink, perhaps you’re experienced, perhaps somewhere in between. In any case, you’ll have to be a woman (all respect to other sexualities, but I’m as straight as they come) and I’d prefer someone between 30-45 years young. For looks, it would be quite arrogant of me to have a whole list of outwardly features; I feel most women can be beautiful, albeit not all in the same way. And I’m 42, I’ve seen a female body, my expectations are realistic. Where you live is not that important - I’m single and for my work I have to stay up late, so I can work with a lot of timezones. If you’re in Western Europe or travel to these parts regularly, I’m very open to meeting up and transition to a dynamic IRL. That is, however, not necessary. The most important thing is that you are honestly looking for a Dom - and you realise a dynamic (whichever shape or form it takes) takes time and effort before you can reap the rewards. Like basically anything worth pursuing.

After all that, it really can’t be a surprise that I like structure, schedules, tasks and rules. Nor that I like to work with a well-defined punishment/reward system. In that aspect I consider myself to be reasonable but strict. The overarching point of all that however is how it benefits you. I love guiding/mentoring/training/teaching: the act of helping someone to get where they want to be. With a lot of teasing, naughty playtimes and banter included. And care, because make no mistake, during all that you’ll have me at your side for the bad stuff too, or the moments it just becomes too much, or when you want to hear someone say it’ll be all right. That’s just as much a part of a dynamic as the kinky stuff. I do have limits: scat, watersports, blood and anything illegal. Your boundaries will, obviously, also be respected at all times.

If you made it here, you should definitely send me a chat. Tell me a little bit about yourself, why my ad resonated with you and we’ll take it from there. I’m looking forward to meeting you.