I am a 26 year old man living in south/southwest London with passions for history, politics, sports, and writing. I mention my passions for history and politics specifically because I believe that my interests in studying power have influenced some of my sexual and kinky preferences. I love to think about how sex can be an extension of power and many of my fantasies revolve around this theme.

To the outside world, I am just a nerdy guy who will talk your ear off about the trajectory of political parties and why dictatorships often fall but will avoid openly talking about sex. Some would assume that this means I am prudish or vanilla but that's not the case. I am someone who will totally open up about these desires to someone I trust. Trust, more than any particular kink or fantasy, is the most important factor in any d/s dynamic. It formed the basis of my limited but exhilarating previous experiences with kink and it will form the basis of any dynamic which could emerge from this post.

I am looking for a fellow Londoner who feels the same way. I am a switch but both my dominant and my submissive fantasies tend to revolve around structured power dynamics. In terms of roleplaying, scenarios such as King/Queen and servant or CEO and employee come closest to explaining my preference. I know many subs of all genders love to be physically dominated. While physical domination can be effective, my primary focus will always be on mental and situational domination.

These themes of domination and submission are best explored through some of my long chapters of erotic writing. I take writing very seriously and I consider my creativity to be one of my biggest strengths as both a dominant and a submissive. If I end up dominating you, you should expect me to send long write-ups after each session to reinforce your submission. If I end up submitting, I would encourage you to use this creative writing passion of mine to deepen my submission.

I will briefly list some of the kinks that I wish to explore as either a dominant or a submissive:

Forced nudity, objectification, discipline, orgasm control/denial, oral sex, penetrative sex, degradation, humiliation, cock/pussy/breast worship, non-sexual service, rituals

I am open to partners of any legal age and gender, although I will prioritise women and folks who are closer in age to me. Please message me if my post appeals to you in any way. I am going to step away from my computer for a while this afternoon so do not be alarmed if I do not reply instantly. If you are interested in submitting, it wouldn't be the worst idea to address me as Sir in your initial message.