Newly self-discovered sub looking for a domme to help him ease into kink. Prior to this, I've been very vanilla and "masking" as a dom in order to please my previous partners who have all been more or less submissives themselves.
I'm looking for someone, preferably online (at least at first), who wants to pop my submissive cherry and break me in. I want to be safe and gradual with my experimentation for now, but I have a feeling I'll completely lose myself to the submissive headspace and do anything you want if you show me affection and take care of me. I love being praised by soft dommes, and want to feel cherished / owned by a confident, dominant woman.
That isn't to say I'm not looking for a more conventional connection while we're at it. I'm not just looking for someone to fulfill my submissive fantasies. This shouldn't have to be a one-way street; I want to also provide the support YOU need. After all, I live to serve. <3
About Me:
I'm a 29 year old bisexual male, and stand at 6' tall on the nose. I've got broad, powerful shoulders and naturally well-built arms and legs. I've been many sizes throughout my life from overweight, to lithe and skinny, to bodybuilder-cut. Currently I'm rocking a dad bod as I have recently exited a sexless long term relationship that did anything but motivate me to stay in top physical form.
At a glance, you'd probably peg me as a imposing-if-gentle giant. Despite being tall and broad by my genetics and from years of on-again-off-again bodybuilding, I'm really a soft, caring guy who wears his heart on his sleeve. I've always been quick with a compliment, and unafraid of being seen as effete for proclaiming my joy and love for the people around me. Even still, my powerful body and masculine features sometimes make it difficult for even me to take my submissive side seriously.
But it's there, and it's so fucking needy. There's a part of this gentle beast of a man that longs to feel small. Powerless. Completely wrapped around the dainty little fingers of a woman that could knock him down with a feather. I want to serve, hang on every word, and pleasure a dominant female partner. I've been typecast and pigeonholed into always having to be every bit the strong and dominant partner I have appeared to be my whole life, and I am sick of it. I want to be a good boy and serve at the pleasure of a mistress.
You:
I'm open to serving and being gentle dommed or disciplined by women of any and all age ranges. Ideally, I'm looking for someone around 25-35 to avoid any weird age incompatibilities, but this is more of a soft requirement. Dominant and sexually charged women of all ages are very much desired.
I'm very open to several body types, but I'm significantly less attracted to extremely under or overweight people. Anything in between will drive me wild, guaranteed. ;)
Although I don't plan on sticking with my current dad bod, I would appreciate an open mindedness about my current and desired future bodytype in a prospective match.
Kinks: Giving oral sex, praise kink (call me a good boy after sitting on my face and I'll probably just about cum on the spot), gentle domme, soft degradation/dirty talk, pet-play, objectification, forced crossdressing/feminization, pegging, hypnosis/mind control, and more! Inquire within; I'm a fucking slut for anything and everything that puts me in my place.
Limits: Cuckoldry, anything to do with human waste, extreme degradation, and impact play for the most part. Pretty much everything else is more or less on the table, provided it isn't life threatening/altering or likely to get us arrested.
If any or all of this interests you, please send me a DM or a chat invite to kick us off, with a little bit about you and what you're looking for in a submissive.
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