The nice thing about friends is that they care about you and they want to see you happy. This often results in dating advice.

This is why I am writing here. Friends of mine, who are not lifestyle, thought of this subreddit after once again having been talking with me about my "choice" of TPE relationships and my delight in "owning" a woman.

So having looked around here I think that the people who are seeking TPE are few and far between, so pursuing it loudly here runs the risk of looking a bit foolish, but that's okay. YKIOK and so is mine, right?

... and what is life if small risks of looking foolish can't be taken in the pursuit of happiness?

In regards to the woman who I am looking for:

I believe we share a similar attitude towards the TPE lifestyle and we could match up on that account. That we both shine and thrive in the dynamic, that it brings out the best of us, while also fulfilling our -other- needs and would it not be grand if those align with each other, respectively in a giving and receiving capacity?

I've been active in the lifestyle for a good twenty years now. Although honestly in many of those years I'd not have seen myself as what I see myself now. Like for many, it is a journey and I am here no exception.

I've had D/s relationships, I've had M/s relationships, I've had kink in the bedroom, power exchange in the entire relationship, behind closed doors and out on the scene.

So when I say that I want TPE, that I need TPE, that it's not a transient fancy, that I will not enter a relationship ever again unless there's the potential for a total and immersive power exchange with someone I respect and am attracted to on top of everything else, that I am willing to wait until I find this match, which no doubt will still require a massive amount of me and her adjusting to each other nevertheless, then I mean that with all my conviction.

If this personal ad attracts you and you get the feeling that this is what you are seeking yourself, then I would very much ask you to get in touch, so we can start a conversation and then who knows ..?

Thank you very much for your time and I shall remain with best regards and great expectations.