Tl;dr: just an incredibly wordy (borderline self-indulgent) way of saying I’ve been thinking about trying some orgasm control play with someone *a lot* lately… wanting to see if there’s any interest out there!

So… I’ve been having this recurrent fantasy lately. I find someone to meet up with after some chatting and possibly a coffee date, get them in a bed, maybe they are restrained (if we both feel comfortable with that) maybe they aren't. I start peeling off their layers of clothing, slowly but deliberately until only their underwear remain. My hands gingerly and measuredly start to caress their body, grazing by the parts of them that are still covered by the underwear. Maybe I give a little rub here, a little pinch there and once I can see that this teasing is working, the undergarments get pulled off too, leaving them completely naked and at my mercy. I wouldn’t blindfold them obviously... wouldn't want to miss seeing the hunger and anticipation in their eyes once I pull a toy out of my duffle bag. From here on out, using my hands, my mouth, my dick and any of the toys I brought along, I’d tease and edge them until they were writhing for release…until their hips are bucking into whatever is stimulating them… begging me to let them cum-- and at that point, I guess I'd have two option? Either let the culmination of my work wash through the entirety of their body in the form of a toe curling, breath holding orgasm… or pull back, pause a moment, and start driving them towards the edge again.

Am I the only one having these daydreams?! Truthfully, I'm not even sure who I'd rather be in that daydream... I'd be good with either role. But if you're interested, hit me up with an ice-breaker or your first question to a game of 21-questions (or really, anything other than "hey").

Me:

• 35 years old
• Cis-male, bisexual/omnisexual
• Married but we've been CNM for half a decade
• Emotionally available and well adjusted (shout out to my therapist)
• Practiced at open, honest communication
• mostly sane…
• GGG
• Neurotically hygienic, brush and floss twice daily. Groom regularly…

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You:

• Any gender
• Age: 20's to mid 30's
• Non smoker (420 is fine but personally not something I’d partake in)
• Decent communicator
• Practiced at setting and respecting boundaries