Have you noticed how hard it is to make friends as you get older? It’s generally easier to find the benefits.

My partner and I opened our relationship a few years ago for many reasons, but partially so I could explore my dominant side (she isn’t at all submissive). I understand if you need discretion, but I am not looking for someone who is seeking an extramarital affair. That’s how you get shot.

About me - I’m a married polyglot Black man who is well-read, well-traveled, and responsibly well-endowed. I stay in shape with bodyweight training. I do not have children, but I am apparently good with kids (and dogs). I rarely play video games, but sometimes I’ll crank out a session in God of War or Fallen Order. Growing up, Mortal Kombat was my jam.

I am looking for a submissive-leaning married woman hotwife/vixen who is looking for a friend that they may enjoy having sex with from time to time. I really mean it on the friendship angle. I tend toward solitude and while sex is great, I definitely would like to meet someone who enjoys spending vertical time with me. I like museums. Sometimes live shows? I kill at bar trivia if it involves Tolkien. I have a strong creative streak in drawing and painting; a friend of mine once described me as a "creative genius who would be good in a motorcycle chase."

My background involves a fair amount of trauma that I have healed from. One of the lessons I’ve taken away is that I’m not a bad person for having normal human desires like kink, a libido, or a snarky sense of humor. It is no sin to be neurotypically clever, to make obscure classical references, or to doubt the religion of the imperialists, or to forgo heteronormative monogamy.

I’m open to the right single person; my ideal is to meet someone who is not looking for a primary relationship because that is not a need I am able to meet.

If you are interested, just send me a chat. No husbands looking to set their wives up without their knowledge. I'm also not here just to talk about my sexual experiences. Please be willing to establish bona fides/identity relatively early on via Telegram. I will not send pictures of my dick; it is best experienced in person.

Thanks!