Hi,

I'm Lilac and I am a married polyamorous woman. I have LDR GF who is my sub online and I live with my husband. I also have a sub BF that is local.

I'm looking for an out lesbian or bisexual submissive. I've dated mostly closeted people and it's getting tiring. I want someone who embraces themselves fully and I am also open to transgender women as well but you must already be transitioned or already transitioning. I've always been bisexual and get so envious of girls just loving girls unashamed and proudly and feel this might be something I find incredibly fulfilling to experience. I don't mind if you are poly too but I'm not interested in your man at all and if this is just to turn him off I'm completely uninterested, I want a genuine connection with a genuine bisexual woman. That means going out on dates and PDA and all that.

I am demisexual and bisexual, so I need a connection. If you rush into talking about sex I will be completely uninterested but I am very kinky so I do want to share an idea of what I enjoy so think of it as looking at a menu of what possibly could be not a meal you are going to get anytime soon.

I am on a health and fitness journey and would like a partner who is the same. No, you don't have to be a gym rat but not eating fast food very often is really important (it's something I can help you with if everything else seems like a good fit though). I prefer average build/slim/fit partners, if you are a bit chubby that is fine but I'm not attracted to very large people (no offense to anyone). I am on the smaller side of plus size (wear XL). I enjoy cooking but I hate washing dishes, so if you like washing dishes we can definitely trade.

I like to text for a while, if I feel comfortable than a voice call then a video call the next time then eventually meeting. I only use discord, no snap or anything sus. I also have a VR headset so we could meet in vr.

I'm located in DFW in Texas, local would be ideal but if you are willing to travel then that's what matters the most. My biggest thing with new partners is showing effort. I put a lot into my partners and I have changed their lives (as well as they have changed mine) for so much better! So I require the same from someone new.

Appearance wise I am attractive, definitely on the cute/pretty side. I look like an alt girl pin up librarian type (I do wear glasses). I will show a picture when I'm comfortable, if you'd like to show yours first to break the ice I appreciate it and those dms are far more likely to get a response from me.

My interests are pretty varied, I love to write/read/cook/3d design for vr. My idea of a romantic fun thing to do would be to read a book together, watch a movie or binge watch a show. I'm goth and love spooky stuff like horror and the occult, very witchy vibes. I even read tarot, maybe if I like you I'll do a reading for you. I'm also very nerdy, I really like scifi/fantasy/supernatural anything. I really loved The Lord of the Rings: Rings of Power show (just trying to find my sub or switch Sauron lol).

Kinks wise I enjoy many different ones but my big ones are:

-Service sub. A true submissive that lives to serve me and especially loves to clean for me.

-Verbal degradation (name calling like puppy/slut etc)

-power exchange

-bondage (I want to learn rope)

-Edging, Tease, Orgasm Denial and Control

-Breathplay & choking (very gentle and safe types that are erotic not violent)

-Spitting (on or in mouth - for the right sub who enjoys it)

If the sub enjoys these I can really get into: knifeplay, CNC and many more.

Date stuff I love doing:

-Shopping

-Reading books together

-Crafts

-Watching Movies together

-Getting dressed up together (hair and make up)

-Concerts

If you enjoy my post send a little bio about you and your interests and why you think we might be a good match with your SFW face picture as well. Can't wait to hear from you!