I'm looking for my person—someone with whom I can connect and build a life. I want to help her be the best she can be. I want to teach her and make her feel safe. I want to be a protector and a leader. I want her to feel free to express herself fully. We will have a vanilla relationship in public, and very intense relationship in private. I want all the usual relationship things; dates, dinner parties, weekend trips. I want all these things and more, with a special aspect just for us.
I think the movie Secretary (2002) with James Spader and Maggie Gyllenhaal is the perfect representation of this. She truly wants to serve him and he truly wants to protect her. She feels safe and loved and knows that he knows what is best for her.
About me: I'm a single, white, male in the DMV area. I am height-weight proportionate. I have thick brown hair and hazel eyes. I have a graduate degree and a white collar career. I work from home and have a lot of time to devote to building something real with someone special.
About you: You are looking for something real and meaningful. You are able to commit to a relationship should one develop. You want to meet in real life and don't want a pen pal.
Tell me about yourself; what you want, what you don't want, and what you need. Include a picture or two if you're comfortable doing so.
Looking forward to talking to you.
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