Hello everyone! Hope all are having a good day.

I am a 37 year old male living in the EST zone. I’m looking for a slightly longer term but still casual online friends with benefits dynamic.

I love to be responsible for a lovely lady's pleasure. I want to be the reason she is wet, needy, aching. I want to know that I am why she is hot and bothered, that I am turning her on physically and mentally. I adore making games for her, crafting tasks, providing instructions, creating rules. I want to take her kinks and likes and make them better for her, show her new things, help her develop new tastes.

I would like something a little longer term. That does not mean 24/7. It means messages when able. We have busy real lives and they are always more important. When she wants to play we can send messages when we can and when schedules align, do faster and more intense back and forth chats. I want her to want to play, to be thinking about the next time she can do naughty things, to pass the day and enjoy some kinky fun together. I adore sending a naughty descriptive message for her to read and get wet over, make her look forward to playing. Casual friends with benefits if you will.

Chatting and bonding over nonkink stuff is welcome too!

It’s so nice to look forward to a message and feel that tingle of excitement. To make plans for faster back and forth and look forward to it. Really makes the day pass faster and more pleasantly.

Kinks that I enjoy that don’t have to all be included are: toys, bondage, spanking, breast and nipple play, oral, praising, being begged, many positions, anal and assplay, outfits and costumes, and plenty of dirty talk.

My vanilla interests include: cooking, reading, writing, video games, tabletop games, and some others.

If this is something you're interested in, please send me a message. In the message please tell me your age, your kinks, and a small introduction including your timezone. Please only message me if we are within a few hours of each other. Unfortunately large time zone differences aren't as feasible. Also, please only message me if you are 24 or older and if you are NOT in a committed relationship/married. I do not condone underage and I do not condone cheating. Also please be willing to type a little. Receiving only one word or one sentence messages is not fun for me. I want to hear how you're feeling, how you're doing. How the tasks went. The more detailed sexting and chatting, the more fun it is. Also ladies only please.

Thank you so much for reading. Hope to hear from you. Have a lovely day!