The reason for my post is to find a suitable sub or slave that I can take care of and nurture and help to become the best sub or slave possible. I am very new to all this but looking to grow and develop.

I am 42 male and based in UK England. So my preference is to have someone also in UK or England. As I would like for us to meet eventually. I don't seek or want purely a online thing.

I am new to the BDSM world when it comes to experience but have had an interest in it for a long time.

My style is very, kind, caring, compassionate, soft and gentle. I'm not looking to harm you. Though we could discuss things regarding some of my kinks and fetishes over time.

I am not keen to have a 24 / 7 arrangement as I want to have a life outside of this. So if you need someone 24 / 7 then I am not for you.

I am definatley interested in something long term with a suitable person that can invest in me and I in them. This would mean investing in me - emotionally, mentally, physically and sexually.

I consider interactions that are based on a connection to be far more suitable and satisfying over not having a connection. So a connection is what I would seek to create and develop and I would want you to also be on the same page regarding this.

I welcome enquiries from anyone. Regardless of gender. I am open to all genders.

I have a few big NO's that I can not cater for: -

• If you are a Brat then I am not suited to you.
  
• If you are a Sadist I am not for you.
• If you are a little, I am not for you.

I ask for the following information from you, when you make contact with me:

• Age
• Gender
• Location
• Kinks
• Fetishes
• Hard Limits

Also please answer the following questions in your message to me:

• What you are looking for?
• What you are offering?
  

Then we can have some open communicate and chats to see how we get on.

As for myself. I am 42, 5ft 11 inches, slim to average build, olive skin that is tanned, oval face, brown eyes, dark hair (Mohawk Style) stubble or small beard, hairy but not essesively. I am very chilled out person, who is pansexual, demisexual, polyamorous, vegan / vegetarian, soft, gentle, kind, caring, loving, secure, calm, considerate, lone wolf and so much more.

Thank you for reading. If anything I have noted appeals to you. Do reach out with a chat request or message.