I'm a 39 year old, queer, agender trans guy (they/he) living in the High Peak area near Manchester. I'm 5'10 with a dad bod, and pre-T or top surgery. Appearance wise I tend to dress on the more alt/goth side of things, have a mohawk that's usually died purple, and have a number of tattoos and piercings. https://imgur.com/a/CKGRnMB

I am polyamorous, with an anchor partner (dating separately) and the occasional fwb.

I'm looking for a regular play partner, but would love it if that develops into a relationship as well. Looking for a femme presenting woman or enby, around 25-40. Ideally smaller than me (as I Iove being able to manhandle my sub) with a masochistic streak. (Just a side note, I don't have a preference for any gender in general, but all my current partners/fwb are amab and I miss being with an afab parner, especially giving oral).

I would describe myself as a soft dom with a (fairly strong) sadistic streak. I have a pretty long list of kinks (up for at least trying most things apart from a small number of hard limits). Particularly fond of bondage, edging, overstimmulation, fisting/large toys, impact play, and sensation play. Also into some harder kinks, but can take or leave them depending on my sub's preferences. I am very concious of negotiating and respecting limits on both sides, and would expect anyone I play with to be familiar with RACK and FRIES.

I can host, and have a reasonably large selection of gear, including a collection of fantasy and realistic dildos in a range of sizes. I can't travel too far as I have a dog and don't drive. I'm generally available weekday evenings, and the occasional weekend if my partner is away.

Vanilla Me I'm a socially awkward, neurospicy, introverted geek, with a love of most things fantasy. Other special interests outside of these and kink tend to vary (the joys of AuDHD). I have a horse and a dog who are my babies and will always take priority. Thanks to them I spend a lot of my free time outdoors. If I am stuck inside my go to is Netflix and attempts at being creative (drawing, crafting, occasionally sewing). Originally from Germany, and also lived in the States (MN) for a few years before moving to the UK. Socialist so anyone who votes tory (or otherwise right wing) need not apply. TERFs, SWERFs and cops take a hike.