Hello there! I’ve been a lurking in the shadows of reddit for a while and figured I’d shoot my shot. Trying to keep this as brief but detailed as possible so here goes…

I'm in my early 30s, and while my life may not have unfolded exactly as I once envisioned (don’t worry, I’m not mad or sad about it), I appreciate the normality of my life in many respects and am soooo grateful for it. I have an appreciation for the everyday, but I'm also excited about the prospect of finding a like-minded long-term partner to share it with.

I believe that a strong sexual connection is a vital part of a fulfilling relationship and I'm seeking someone who shares this similar view and cherishes the passionate and intimate aspects of our potential relationship. With a shared understanding and respect for each other's needs, we can explore the depths of intimacy, embracing our unique kinks and desires together.

From a personality standpoint in a nutshell, I’m an ESFJ on that Meyers-Briggs test if that matters to anyone anymore.

From a physical standpoint, I stand at about 5’4”, HWP, and easy on the eyes :P . As Usher says in his song “Yeah!”, I’m essentially ”a lady in the streets but a freak in the bed”. I’m a submissive 100% and am seeking a committed D/S dynamic where trust is our foundation and consent is a top priority for safety purposes. I find myself fulfilled in pleasuring and serving my dom in whichever way he fancies. Following directions and receiving praise gets me off like no other.

Things I’ve found fun so far, but not a full extensive list:

- Bondage (pretty novice here, eager to explore more)

- Breath play

- Collaring

- Light impact play (spankings & little bites/nibbles)

- Being used as your own personal fucktoy >:)

- Cock worship/oral (giving and receiving)

Boundaries & what I’m NOT looking for:

- Degradation

- Humiliation

- 24/7 DS controlled relationship- I have my own life to live but will willingly submit behind closed doors during our times alone 😉

- Race play

What I expect from you:

- A real male person and can prove it- Reddit is full of spam accounts and bots so I’m trying to filter this out from the get-go

- Sane, patient, respectful

- Recently tested & hygienically clean and put together

- Within the NYC area, aged 30 preferred

If this piques your interest, please tell me about yourself, experiences, what you’re looking for and what prompted your reply to this post.

Awaiting the thrill of the unknown and the comfort of the known. Hope you’re out there. Looking forward to hearing from you soon x