🔹 Name/Pronouns/Age: my name is Am, I use he/him pronouns(transmale, recently post top sugery, on hormones) I am 19 but 20 in December!

🔹 In your own words, what are you looking for?: I’m looking for a dominant(my preference is men/masc/non-binary) who wants to grow with me, help give me some structure(sexual and non sexual), and wants to help me be the best me possible. I am ideally looking for something that has the possibility to be romantic. I want to start slow and slowly build up a dynamic, im not in a rush. I’m looking for someone sadistic. I am a pain puppy who loves to have to endure pain to receive pleasure. I want someone who’s sweet and caring but also firm and won’t let me slip or get out of whatever I’ve gotten myself into. (A loving dom who is sadistic, loves predicament bondage, and wants to also genuinely get to know me)

🔹 Kinks: pain, (predicament) bondage, free use, sleepy play, anal(a slow thing I’m working on), being consensually pushed, shared,being on display, a toy for your entertainment, cnc, humiliation, degrading, praise, sounding, tasks, chemical play, pet playI am open to most things and also have and interest in exploring blackmail.

🔹 Limits: scat, vaginal penetration, involving food with play(minus things like ginger for chemical play, not open to things likely to cause yeast infections/UTI), denial(possibility in the future)

🔹 Kink experience you've had: my primary experience is with being a pain puppy, I enjoy impact(others doing it to me), I’ve done needle play and softer things like rubber bands, clamps. Soft cnc, sleepy play, submission, bondage, some pet play.

🔹 Why are you looking for a dom?: I want to connect with someone and build a relationship that is mutually beneficial. I want a safe space to be submissive.

🔹 Is there something that makes you stand out from other subs?: maybe not stand out but I consider myself to have excellent communication, I only respectfully brat, and want to care for you, this won’t be one sided. I’m a sensitive boy and my loyalty runs deep, just like a puppy!

🔹 Are you seeking a play partner, an involved relationship with frequent daily communication, or less frequent casual play?: I’m seeking probably a more involved daily partner, at least until I get a good base with you. Romance is on the table.

🔹 What sort of dynamic you want? (Mean, or more gentle? CNC or Blackmail? Strict rules, punishment and discipline or light and fun?): I’m looking for structure with rules and punishments(and funishments) caring aftercare, the possibility of exploring blackmail, meeting in person if things can line up, someone who can be soft but also firm/mean if needed.

🔹 What sort of aftercare needs do you have, and what do you feel is important to negotiate and discuss?: I think it’s important to discuss what good communication looks like, boundary’s,soft and hard limits, safe words, and what’s expected of each of us, what things are and aren’t acceptable(example: I will not be yelled at and I will not tell at you),what’s on the table and isn’t, how you handle your other relationships(I am poly and don’t let others have control of my other relationships) , and anything else we feel is important. Aftercare depends on what play was done. I enjoy receiving praise that I did well.

Please get back to me with personal information about yourself and why you feel you fit into what I’m looking for! (Name, sexuality, gender, pronouns, age, roles, sadistic or not, what you are and aren’t into, experience, what you’re looking for, is there something that makes you stand out from others, things important to discuss beforehand, do you have a Fetlife profile(I can share mine on request if effort was put into initial message))

I’ll also put the template down below if you’d like to use that

🔹 Name/Pronouns/Age:

🔹 In your own words, what are you looking for?:

🔹 Kinks:

🔹 Limits:

🔹 Kink experience you've had:

🔹 Why are you looking for a dom?:

🔹 Is there something that makes you stand out from other subs?:

🔹 Are you seeking a play partner, an involved relationship with frequent daily communication, or less frequent casual play?:

🔹 What sort of dynamic you want? (Mean, or more gentle? CNC or Blackmail? Strict rules, punishment and discipline or light and fun?):

🔹 What sort of aftercare needs do you have, and what do you feel is important to negotiate and discuss?: