I just wrote an about me on another kink website, so I'm just going to paste it here :) This is my old reddit account that I no longer use, so opinoins/comments may no longer be relevant :D

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Hello! I'm a Vietnamese-American guy (mid 20s) in Southern California looking a girl. I consider myself a sadistic person at times but I like to maintain an unsuspecting outwardly calm, reserved, but sometimes goofy exterior.

I'll talk about who I am first since that will differentiate me from others. Then the list of kinks is at the bottom.

Facewise I am decently attractive, but my thinning hair definitely made me lose some points there. I plan to shave it all off once it gets bad enough or once I move out from family. I'm 5'8" and about 5".

Atheist and somewhat conservative/moderate politically. Lots of bs in the world in general and I just form my own opinion and I don't like to blindly align with any one group. No drugs at all or ever (but alcohol will probably be useful for some kinks). Browse gore/death sites at times and productive online communities (ycombinator, subreddits, discords) here and there.

Hobbywise, I've been getting into archery, freestyle soccer, juggling, skimboarding. Other interests that I'd like to do but less frequently would be hunting, camping, indoor rock climbing, kayaking, airsoft, paintball, astronomy/astrophotography, etc. I really want to get more fit in general to perform athletically and also look good (swimming, running, calisthenics, weights, etc.) I also sometimes sing or dance to myself to help lift my spirits :) I don't look/sound amazing while doing so, but it's fun!

Got my bachelors in CS, going for my masters (online), and probably PhD after (start a family early/mid 30s). The idea of doing a MS in Math or EE part time after all would be nice, but we'll see how busy it'll be then. I got a job lined up as a software developer soon but I'm interested in trying to do my own general software and also research-based ML/AI businesses in the future.

I always thought the idea of having a history of non-relationship sex when I finally meet the right partner to be something that I would regret, but I've recently figured it's OK as long as I/and the other person didn't have risky encounters. I also lways had these kinks I would want us to try with others, but in all honesty, post-nut I always think to myself, yeah, that was fun to imagine but at the end of the day, I would want us to be exclusive to just each other! I guess it's something we can try and see if we want to continue or not.

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The list of kinks I'd like to try can go forever and I'm opening to exploring with you! I definitely grew my kinks overtime and self-explored/thought at night and became more comfortable with these topics on my own.

Good with trying:

• BDSM/bondage/all toys
• Gender-play (imagining us as different genders and trying all the different lesbian, gay, reversed sex)
• Race-play (imagining each other as other races, etc.)
• Other roleplay
• Threesomes (whoever we can find or escorts if we have money), little swinging, bidirectional cuckholding, roleplaying cheating on the other (roleplay because it's known beforehand). I don't want to be there physically there personally if it's a guy. I'd like to maintain SOME dignity but watching it on video is fine :D
• Ageplay/incest of all kinds (I know it's bad, we definitely won't ever do anything risky...but I used to browse pics of those similarly aged and read all kinds of confession, incest stuff when I was 11/12, so it kind of stuck). Imagining each other as each other's grandparents, grandchild, nephew, aunt, sibling, etc.
• Piss, saliva- Face fucking, rough fucking, rape-play, violent sex, roleplay war rape, etc.
• Recording, public (but careful not to be seen/sussed out)
• Pegging, sissy, threesome with MTF (Only if I trust you a lot. I don't like the idea of doing these "gay" stuff on my own, but I can see how it can be fun but only if I have a female partner with me. probably if we're in a longterm relationship). This but reversed gender for you.

Meh about but might be viable if in the mood and only imagining it:

• Zoophilia
• Blood
• Feces
• Violence/necrophilia

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If you think we're a good match relationship wise or even just casual-wise, send me a message! I'll do the same likewise. I don't live on my own right now, but I can drive and we can make it work until I do! Creativity always makes it fun anyways :)