About vanilla me:
Current college student. 5’4, athletic, with blonde hair and blue eyes. I would describe myself as looking like the quintessential blonde girl. Three favorite things would be nonfiction books, watching sports, and em dashes in writing. I’m quite social and talkative. I’m looking for something I haven’t been able to find in my normal dating life.
In terms of kink:
I’m driven by a need to submit in the bedroom. I’m very driven and ambitious in everyday life, so need a time to turn that off (classic, I know). Classic people pleaser and high achiever, which translates into my kink. I have some experience with lighter kink but most of my knowledge of what I’m into comes from hours of fantasizing.
General kinks (and phrases)
* praise kink
* being treated condescendingly — affectionate cruelty
* intelligence, communication, humility and maturity (probably the things I find sexiest on this list)
* Orgasm control/teasing/denial
* Light-ish impact play
* come on, baby", "do it for me", "you're being so good," "what a good girl you're being for me"
* patronizingly: "aww, is my baby crying?", "does it hurt? ohh, I'm so sorry," "of course, you are such a smart, strong girl. uh-huh"
* warning in your eyes: "you want to say that again?"/"I'll let you try that one more time"
You:
* Like having conversations with em dashes and multiple parentheses
* Are intelligent and ambitious
* Are attractive — This is not a personal affront, I do consider myself to be attractive and would like to be with someone I am very attracted to.
* Are aged 20-30ish
* Are around Philadelphia or willing to travel here
If you’re interested, send me a message introducing yourself (bonus points for a photo!!)
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