Hi! I’ve posted here a few times before, but took a break for a while. If we’ve talked before don’t be afraid to reach back out. I am skeptical about meeting people through Reddit (I usually meet through dating apps, but the area I’m currently in is like purgatory for dating).

Now that the disclaimers are out of the way, you can call me Christian! I’m 26 living in NC, have a pretty good job, and have some pretty decent experience in BDSM both as a dom and a sub.

I am looking for something serious. I don’t do casual hook-ups, FWB, or online only relationships. I am a man who knows what he wants, and I’m looking for a woman who knows what she is looking for.

So here’s what I want: a woman who takes care of herself, embodies traditional feminine values, likes to listen to live music, likes to go new places and try new things, is physically fit and enjoys being active, and wants to have a family one day.

I was born and raised in the South. Chivalry is important to me. If you think that chivalry is benevolent sexism, then we are probably not a good fit. I believe in being able to defend the people I care about. I am very protective. I believe a man should provide for his woman, but I expect my woman to contribute to our relationship in the ways she feels are appropriate, and is comfortable with.

Sex is very important to me in a romantic relationship. That kind of physical intimacy is what makes these kinds of relationships unique. I am possessive and loyal. If you think you would want any kind of open relationship, we would not be a good fit. Also, I have a very high sex drive, and need a partner who does too.

I see the role of BDSM in a relationship as a tool to enhance our emotional connection, trust, keeping our sex lives fun and interesting, and as a way to bond and have fun together. Some of my favorite kinks are tease and denial, bondage, breeding, toys, light pain, spanking, lingerie (and telling my woman what to wear), rules (not TPE, but it’s fun when they occur outside the bedroom as well), collar and leash, light choking, and some others. My limits are anything permanent, anything extreme (blood, etc), bathroom stuff, and age play.

Because physical attraction is important, here’s a pic of me!