30 (F4F) Online/EST. Looking for my good girl.

Hello hello. Lurker finally turned poster in hopes of making a connection.

I'm looking for what will probably be fully online connection with a submissive woman that is 21 .

About me: - 9 to 5 career that ends up being more 8 to 6, and keeps me busy. I can usually touch base multiple times during the day and hope for the same, and am active in the evenings and weekends. - I'm 5'10, 5'11 on a good day and 6'1 in my favorite platforms and I'm plus sized. Dark hair and eyes, tattooed. Eager to share SFW selfies after some chatting because attraction is important. - One of my major hobbies is written roleplay, so I'm very good with my words. Other hobbies include documentaries, history, true crime, social commentary. Music is super important to me and I will send you songs regularly from various genres. I'm in the process of moving but look forward to starting at my new gym soon, as well as taking up gardening. Physically I'm here, mentally and emotionally I'm on 40 acres off the grid lol. - I'm not very sadistic or overly derogatory. I don't want to hurt you (not much, anyway).

About you: - I find a wide variety of appearances to be attractive to I don't think I have a set type. - You're capable, independent, and intelligent. You can and do control yourself and your daily life, but you don't want to. You want me to take care of that for you. - You're cool. We can joke, vibe, send memes and gifs and music, and actually enjoy one another as people before anything else. - You're not a Little or a hard-core Brat. MDLG is not my thing and I'm not arguing with a brat all day because I said what I said the first time.

About us: - We're great together. We get to know one another, become great friends, and eventually you're comfortable giving me the control that I'm comfortable and capable of taking. You trust me because I've earned it, and you know that I know best so you love letting me make decisions for you. - Soon, I'm choosing your outfits. You're checking in with me throughout the day. I have tasks for you. I have praise for you because You're such a good girl and you have praise for me because you know stroking my ego is the fastest way to whatever you want. - You're asking permission to come and I'm denying it until you've begged well enough. I'm telling you exactly what to do and how to do it and you're telling me how good it feels. Pretty soon your day doesn't feel complete without me and mine doesn't feel complete without you.

Neither of us are kink dispensers but I will leave a little taste of some things I'm interested in so you can see what we may have in common. I'm very into control, TPE, GM, toys, insertion, stretching and training, nipple and breast play, rimming, anal play, spanking, grinding, praise, orgasm denial, edging, begging, forced orgasms, overstimulation, and plenty more.

My hard limits are under age, scat/watersports, permanent damage, violence, noncon, and anything you'd consider more extreme than the limits I just listed.