Hello thanks for checking out my post!

About me: 5'10", 170 lbs, white, fit.

Body Pic of Me: https://i.imgur.com/V20XSag.jpg

What I'm looking for: I am looking for a woman aged anywhere from 30-45 that is submissive and is looking explore a D/S relationship. I want a monogamous relationship with a girl where we chat, get to know each other better, then we can meet publicly and see if we vibe / click. If you are partnered or poly, I am not interested. I seek a relationship that would turn into a LTR and beyond. Would like someone I can go out with to festivals, concerts, camping trips, hiking, vacations, etc. I live in southern Orange County, which is nice because it means I am right in the middle. LA, San Diego, San Bernardino, all are within striking distance.

We would discuss your kinks and limits. In a d/s relationship, it is all about what is comfortable for you. Your limits are the rule of law and will always be followed. Respect is the name of the game and while we'll have a relationship where I am at the Dom, your wishes are and always will be respected.

My Interests: Into having an intimate relationship with a girl where I can provide a safe environment. Kinks to include firm and hard sex, restraint, anal sex (giving), kissing, light choking, biting, spanking, and more. Interests can evolve over time so I am always open to discussing your kinks to see if they can become reality. Limits to include: cutting, permanent marking, scat, vore, and young ageplay.

Ideally, our relationship dynamic would be carried out like above in the privacy of my home. Outside in public, I'd like to carry on a vanilla-style relationship to friends and family. Nobody would know the kinks we have and what we do together. Example, we might go out to see family, while you're wearing a plug, as a general light example.

My life arrangement: I am divorced and have no children. I do have 2 fubabies (cats) that are 2 most amazing dudes you'll ever meet. I have a successful career and have my own spot that I own here in south OC. I enjoy my work and my career continues to excel. Being an IT by trade, I love techie things so the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. I tend to be nerdy and have been described as charismatic and funny. My hobbies include working out daily, or running, and mixing music. I love nature, camping and hiking. Family is important to me so I make efforts to see mine (and if we clicked and it worked out, to see yours as well).

Thank you for taking the time to read this. If interested, please send me a chat request or a pm. Good luck to you on your search!