Hey there. Fair warning that this is gonna be a long personal, but you're worth it.

TL;DR: I'm a 23-year-old male, moderately athletic with a fit & toned body, brown hair, and hazel eyes, looking for a sub who is equally passionate in life and yearns to give in/be challenged by her trusted partner for a rewarding ethical kinky relationship!

"Who is this man behind the words?"

Physically - I'm 23, single, with brown hair and hazel eyes, moderately athletic (fit & toned body), non-smoker, clean/DDF.

Personality - I'm a mixture of passion, support, and just the right amount of deviancy. I've been described as playful, caring, communicative, honest, creative, mature, witty, curious, easy to talk to, driven, patient, open-minded... and a lot more. My love languages tend to be quality time, physical touch, and words of affirmation.

Interests - Part homebody, part social. I've got a pretty eclectic assortment of interests, including: TV/film (almost any genre), Kayaking, music (my playlist can be described as an identity crisis it has so many genres) , history museums, gaming (Tabletop & Video games) , reading/writing (When the mood strikes), health (“mental health is confidence”) Hopefully we share a few interests already.

Daily life - I have a career that I’m planning on revamping for the better. I also love to get lost in my hobbies. I live in my own place (no roommates) and am financially independent. Plus lots of miles for travel! I consider D/s to be an essential part of my romantic relationship, not just something for the bedroom (more on that below). I will always make time for my partner and expect the same in return. Communication is a huge part of any healthy relationship.

Who and what I'm looking for

Let's be a kinky power couple together! Submission and D/s are not mutually exclusive from having agency in life. In fact, they're complimentary. I'm looking for someone who considers herself passionate/driven/ambitious (whatever that means to you) - but also dreams of relinquishing control in the right hands. Someone craving to be with a trusted partner who will challenge her, and help her succeed in everything she desires in life through the care, safety, structure, pleasure, discipline of a holistic D/s dynamic... This lifestyle is meant to make us be the best version of ourselves for each other, so shall We?

My ideal partner has the same qualities that I bring: she loves to explore/learn/try new things, she's active/takes care of her physical mental health, she has goals, she is communicative, empathetic, giving, loyal, honest, kinky, emotionally available, not looking for a "sugar daddy," and serious about finding a Dom partner.

I'm genuinely open to a few s-type identities (submissive, brat, middle, and slave are the ones I have experience with)

My only dealbreakers in a partner are: nicotine/cigarette smoker, unable to healthily communicate, any STIs/STDs, and ones who do not take care of their health.

Location - Eastern North Carolina or Pennsylvania. I’m currently living in NC but will be returning to PA towards the end of next year. I don’t mind starting off as an LDR so I'm also open to those along the East Coast.

Do you already recognize yourself & think we could be compatible? Don't hesitate to reach out~

I know it can be intimidating to message so please know you are always appreciated. 💙

The kinky stuff

Experience - Whether this is your first rodeo or not, I'm welcoming of all as I've been in the lifestyle for the past 6 years. In that time, I've had D/s relationships to different degrees (including, TPE, M/s, and dabbling with protocols) which have led me to narrow down what I desire, hence this post. I'm an open book and always happy to answer anything on your mind! If you're curious and inquisitive, we're probably a perfect match already!

D/s dynamic - I consider myself your catharsis, comfort, and accountability rolled into one. Nurturing but exhilarating, sweet yet firm, dominant but respectful. The one constant is that I'm big on communication and care, making our relationship not just a safe-space but something unique to us. My partner is a priority for me, just as I want to be for her. That means I would like to chat regularly and spend time together since this is a real relationship. I'm also a believer in (negotiated) structure and rules beyond the bedroom. Each dynamic is unique so it's not a one-size-fits-all. Obviously nothing happens until we've established clear connection, consent, and mutual respect. Much more to discuss together.

My hard limits - ABDL/diapers and scat

My kinks - Include impact play, bondage/shibari, sensation play, orgasm control/edging, some humiliation/degradation, praise, service, training/tasks/protocols, among some others…

Until our paths cross~