Hey everyone. I’m J. Despite my relatively young age, I’ve been in the kink scene for a long time and I’ve had lots of great experiences. That being said, I want to get back to basics and build a lasting, dedicated dynamic with the right person. I want a deep connection, trust, and communication.

About me: I work a white collar job for the government. I’m a true crime nerd to my core. I love psychology, nature, history, and the like. Despite my interests, I’m not stranger to hard work. I’m mechanically inclined and good with my hands. Physically I’m 6’3, tall, strong, and broad with a beard. I’m extremely possessive and want someone that I can make mine, someone that I can own.

I have a laundry list of kinks including: bondage, toys, orgasm control, praise, degradation, rules, discipline, cnc, control, and of course TPE

About you: I want someone that will do their best and give me their enthusiasm. I’m looking for someone that understands the need for good communication. I love good banter and witty and sharp back and forth mixed with a solid power exchange and an understanding of who’s in charge under the surface. I want someone that can keep me on toes while we joke and goof around - gentle bullying is how I show my affection. I’m huge on free and open communication and want someone that understands the importance. I love to have a structure and a routine.

I tend to be on the more intense side of things. I want a deep connection, a heavy power exchange, and a deep bond. I’m looking for someone that takes pleasure in their service and is eager to please. I have a bit of a sadistic streak. I want someone that I can break down, torment and violate then love and cuddle back down to earth.

I think that wraps this up. I appreciate the read and I look forward to hearing from you.