Hey everyone. I’m J. Despite my relatively young age, I’ve been in the kink scene for a long time and I’ve had lots of great experiences. That being said, I want to get back to basics and build a lasting, dedicated dynamic with the right person. I want a deep connection, trust, and communication.

About me: I work a white collar job for the government. I’m a true crime nerd to my core. I love psychology, nature, history, and the like. Despite my interests, I’m not stranger to hard work. I’m mechanically inclined and good with my hands. Physically I’m 6’3, tall, strong, and broad with a beard. My redflag is that I’m terrible with pop culture - so I need someone that can tell me why I recognize that actor.

I have a laundry list of kinks including: bondage, toys, orgasm control, praise, degradation, rules, discipline, cnc, control, and of course TPE

About you: I want someone that will do their best and give me their enthusiasm. I’m looking for someone that understands the need for good communication. I love good banter and witty and sharp back and forth mixed with a solid power exchange and an understanding of who’s in charge under the surface. I want someone that can keep me on toes while we joke and goof around - gentle bullying is how I show my affection. I tend to be extremely possessive and I find that I mesh well with someone that’s a little clingy or that wants lots of attention

I tend to be on the more intense side of things. I want a deep connection, a heavy power exchange, and a deep bond. I’m looking for someone that takes pleasure in their service and is eager to please. I have a bit of a sadistic streak, but I’m also a caring dom. It’s the best backhanded combination.

I think that wraps this up. I appreciate the read and I look forward to hearing from you.