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I recently saw an image of the different kinds of subs that are out there with the different kinds of traits, characteristics, kinks, fetishes, attributes and more. This has then led me to make this post.
I am in search for the ideal submissive. One that is compatibile with me and I with them. One that gels well with me and me to them and one that I can grow with and develop with and they can grow and develop with me.
I have taken the traits, kinks, fetishes, attributes from all the different types of submissives and included them below. Along with a few more kinks, traits, fetishes and attributes that appeal to me.
Have a read through the list below. If you have most or all of the traits or kinks or fetishes or attributes. Then please keep reading. If you have non then please stop reading.
- Oral fixation
- Cock warmer
- Soft
- Likes to Swallows
- Shy
- Likes Breeding
- Likes Anal
- Obidient Good Girl
- Exhibitionist
- Loves Toys
- Loves following Rules
- Modern 1950
- Partial Tpe
- Free Use
- Pleaser
- Light CNC
- Service orientated
- Wants to make sure the Dom is always comfortable and happy
- Likes to Rim the Dom
- Sleepy S*x
- Affectionate
Thank you for reading on and well done for having the above traits, kink, fetishes and attributes.
I now require you to provide the following details and also answer the last 2 questions. This will really help me figure out your suitability for being a submissive with and for me.
- Age
- Location (be based in England / UK only)
- List of your Kinks
- List of your Fetishes
- Hard Limits
- What do you offer as a submissive?
- What do you want from the Dominate?
Include what traits and kinks and fetishes you have from my list. Then also include the answers to the 2 questions above in your message to me.
I will review everything and if I deem you to be suitable I will respond.
I am a new Dom and I don't have any offical experience. I would describe myself as a soft and gentle Dom. So if you are looking for brutality then I am not for you. I do have a biting fetish and also like to give love bites along witth affecton and care and kindness and touch.
For me - I like to connect on a mental, emotional and physical level when it comes to any sort of relationship and this applies very much to the Dom and sub relationship. A relationship is what I seek but a relationship that is accepting of me being pansexual, demisexual, polymorous, enm. This is very important and if you can not accept this then we will not work.
I really like my freedom and I respect your freedom also. I am not the kind of person to sleep around. I am more about having and forming deep, loving, caring, intimate relationships.
I want to be given the freedom. I am not looking for a 24 / 7 dynamic. I want to live a life outside of the kink and fetishes and fantasies.
What I offer as a Dom:
- Respect
- Non Judgment
- Space to be yourself
- Privacy and Confidentiality
- Truth
- Honesty
- Exploration and Experimentation
- Kindness
- Compassion
- Care
- Love
Here are some details about myself
I am 42, 5ft 11inches, average to slim build, dark hair, oval face, brown eyes, tanned olive skin, black and grey facial hair or stubble, hairy body.
Thank you for reading. I look forward to hear from you. If you havw questions or are uncertain about aanything. Juat reach out. I am hapoy to answer any questions you may have. Please do remember that you are expected to provide the details.
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