Howdy, I'm Doc. I've been a dom for a little over 10 years. I practice more of the mental/emotional side of BDSM than the physical. Physical goes about as far as spanking, my past partners have all been fairly vanilla. I'm reasonably successful at finding short term partners on the phone sex sub, but lately there were a couple of people I clicked with that got me wanting more. So I guess what I'll do is tell you a bit about me and say what I'm looking for.

Me: Physical traits: On the tall end of average at 6 feet, overweight but making steady progress. Blue eyes, light brown hair, long enough that I can and often do wear it up for convenience at work, beard tends to stay around medium. No tattoos or piercings, though I plan on getting both fairly soon. Not opposed to sending pictures once we start chatting, but my career path has me all too aware of digital footprints so I try to keep them off reddit. Personality: People tend to assume I'm an introvert because I listen and think more than I speak, but I more consider myself an ambivert. I'm a pretty big nerd. I mostly play games with my free time, video, card, and board games. I watch a little bit of anime here and there, read a decent bit more manga. Very big into computers and electronics. I'd like to think I'm pretty funny, passionate, loyal, and friendly. (once people get past my imposing stature and RBF) Love power metal, progressive metal, prog rock, jazz, and some R&B. Lifestyle: like actual lifestyle, not the lifestyle. I have a mid level IT cert, cybersecurity though I've also studied networking fairly extensively and could probably get that if I desired. I'd like to make a career out of it but for now my job is hardware technician at a technology recycling center. Diet is mostly anything. Very strong preference to spicy. Favorite types of food are probably Indian and then Thai. Indoorsy type if my hobbies didn't give that away. I make decent money and have my own car, but unfortunately don't live on my own yet because you need more than decent money for that. I love pets, have a cat. She is my daughter and I spoil her. Kink: like I mentioned before I've been a dom for about 10 years. As most of my intimate interactions of late are via phone sex that mostly expresses as the usual praise, degradation, and whatever control my partner is willing to give me. I absolutely love lovenses and other controllable toys, they've kind of awakened a pleasure dom side to me. As far as my kinks go, I'm kind of a kink chameleon. I'm mostly into whatever helps my partner have the best time possible. Only real stand outs to me is a little bit of incest rp (cousins, step siblings, step parent/child) and a little bit of cnc. Sex is obviously best with someone you have a deep connection with, but it's also pretty great with strangers. So I'm pretty open about it and can separate sex and feelings. I'd like to think I'm pretty skilled. Know how to use my fingers and tongue and "suffer" from delayed ejaculation disorder (fancy words for hard to cum) so I can usually keep hoping as long as my partner needs/wants. This all is just the tip of the iceberg of course, a basic rundown so you can see if you think we'd click.

You: Physical traits: honestly this is the least important part to me. Obviously I'd like to find someone I'm attracted to, but I like most women. I like short, tall, slim, curvy, small boobs, big boobs, shaved, unshaved. I do have a alight preference for smaller more petite girls and for them to be non white. (not a raceplay thing or anything like that, I just think women of color are beautiful.) As far as fashion goes I'm a sucker for alt and goth. Ideally someone in the DFW area, but I'm no stranger to LDRs so I'm open to further. Personality: I tend to like bright and cheery girls. On the nerdy side would be fantastic. I tend to like people who are unique and unafraid to be themselves. I like submissive girls obviously, but I want them to be fiesty in public and more timid in private. Playful banter and light ribbing is ideal. Lifestyle: Again this isn't too important. Someone who has their life and career together would be great, but I can't really judge since I barely have mine together. Kink: as mentioned above, submissive. A high sex drive would be fantastic so I can flex my pleasure dom skills. If this all sounds interesting to you, feel free to shoot me a message. I usually prefer to talk on discord so I'll want to move it there. If you read this far then thank you so much for your time. And if I'm not what you're looking for then godspeed finding it. 🥰