How about a deeper connection? Exploring each other's souls and minds to make a lasting long term, monogamous connection. I want you to worm into my mind just as much as I want to worm into yours. Each an imperfect half to make a perfect whole. Let me belong to you while I take ownership of you. Respectfully.

Me:

A 32 year old, 5 '10”, 69 kg (nice?), brown man supporting brown eyes and dark brown hair. Full sleeve tattoo on my left arm and dreams of getting more. My stylistic choices revolve around the refined and the casual, so think buttoned down shirts with a vest but sleeves rolled up to expose my tattoos and accessories. Professional casual is my vibe. My musical tastes follow the same patterns with the most listened to genres being Progressive Death Metal and Classical, an enjoyer of music not just songs. Instrument wise, I love the Violin, which I am learning to play myself. So far it's screechy noises but it's a long journey! I’m a proud owner of a double coated Persian fluffball, while she is high maintenance (how something that small can shed so much hair is beyond my comprehension) I don't shy away from effort where it's needed.

Career wise I hold an executive position and am a shareholder of a small family run business. A position I feel I'm underqualified for given my age but one I’ve earned through my work, my values and my ethics. I do work 6 days a week and my work is important to me. I'm highly family oriented and am the primary caretaker of my aging parents and my grandmother, which Is why in my current search I'm looking for someone with similar values in that regard. I have a fair bit of responsibilities and that's an environment where I thrive. Of course there is so much more to say, but I’ll refrain from bloating this post further, as you can no doubt tell by now writing and reading are among my favorite activities.

You:

The only requirement I have for my potential soulmate is: Be your real self. You are perfect in your imperfections. The rest is down to if we can connect or not.

Back to me. I’m someone that values beauty, and my standard for beauty is grounded in realism. I dislike shallow or materialistic people. I love the natural, the unadorned, the imperfect and the broken. I do not care about ethnicity. I value emotional intimacy more than sexual intimacy.

Kinks:

Alright fine we can’t post a personal post on a kink related sub without mentioning kinks, but apologies, I'm not going to list down my kinks like its a checklist to go through, I’d much rather prefer having a conversation, preferably after an initial connection has been formed. Having said that though I’ll provide a bit of my background with kinks and potential deal breakers.

My kinky relationships tend to center around building my partner up, caring for them, enabling them to be the best version of themselves. On the flip side to that, I am a sadist and I equally love breaking things apart. My biggest interest in kinks are emotions and feelings. I thrive off making my partner feel, that can be through pain, pleasure, wit and jokes, love and care bombing or good old MESM.

While I do fit the label of a caregiver I do not feel I'm equipped to handle age regression. It’s also something I have little to no experience with. Sorry age regressing littles and middles, hopefully you’ll have the best of luck in your search. If however you do not age regress but do have little tendencies, then we might be a good fit. Princess is one of my favorite pet names to give out. Another thing worth mentioning is that since I'm looking for a long term relationship that potentially leads to much more, I won't be catering to switches as I am not a switch myself.

I believe in accountability, from both sides, and open communication. Building on that, it's prudent to let you know that I am in a casual, monogamous dynamic with a friend. Someone I met through this very subreddit. She is aware I am seeking again and being the wonderful person she is has been very understanding about it. I hope to have made a good friend even when that dynamic ends, to end something on a bad note just isn't me.

Limits:

Scat, Blood, Water sports, Animals, Age play, Role reversals.

I’m operating out of the GMT 5 time zone and would prefer someone no more than 5 hours either way. Experienced or unexperienced doesn't matter to me, what does matter to me and should to you, is that we both be as personally responsible as possible as well as being informed. I’d like for us to start out online but please do keep in mind I want us to be a real thing provided we connect. Expectations going into any relationship should be properly managed, specially a kinky relationship.

I am someone who has been through and seen the darker sides of the human experience. My ethics and morals are tested everyday because of the environment I live in. I am not perfect by any stretch of the word. What I do believe in is that I have a responsibility to leave this world a bit better. That for me is done by enabling and empowering those around me. I am a guide to those younger than me, and someone who is always down to listen and to share in the burdens of life.

Phew, that was a bit wasn't it? Thank you for sticking with the post so far. I do require your attention for a bit longer though! If any of this, well me, resonates with you I’ll be looking forward to learning more about you. The worst that can happen is that we both make a new friend. Don’t worry, I don’t bite. Well, only consensually.

I hope you, my dear reader, have a wonderful day and are blessed by good luck by whichever paradigm you subscribe to. Wishing you all the best.

-Nav

Edit: Why is reddit formatting so horrible?