Hey! I'm a 27 year old FTM trans guy (he/him pronouns) who is looking for a committed, long term relationship!
I know this post is long. I tend to be wordy sometimes and I'm sorry about that.
#About me:
* I live Minnesota and it would be great if you were in the same state but long distance is okay too!
* As I said, I am a transgender man. I've been on hormones since February 2022. I'm getting top surgery hopefully some time next year. I have no real plans to get bottom surgery.
* I'm short (5'0"), chubby (~150-60lbs), black hair, brown eyes, wear glasses, and have piercings. I'll be honest and say I don't really pass for a man. Maybe androgynous at best. I do have a good amount of body hair though which I love. I dress mostly masc-ish and tend to lean into a punk vibe.
* I'm autistic and have ADHD. Plus very bad anxiety. Please be patient with me especially as I'm getting to know you.
* I'm disabled so I can't work or drive. Putting this out there right now because I know that it'll turn a lot of people away (which is understandable!) I could clean and cook for my partner though if we ever moved in together!
* As for personality, I'm super shy, kinda nerdy, and overly empathetic. I'm a hopeless romantic so I'm all about lovey-dovey romance stuff. I admittedly gets attached pretty easily but I try not to be too clingy unless you want me to be. Also I really love cuddles. Touch is my love language! :two_hearts:
* My interests include video games, animals, and watching youtube/twitch. I also really want to get into cooking, D&D, crafty things, and maybe something like hiking! I'm also very open to exploring new hobbies with someone!
* Smoke, drug, and alcohol free. I ask that you be free from hard drugs, not be addicted to any substances, and be willing to not smoke anything while I'm in the same room as you.
#NSFW Info:
* I'm a virgin with no kink experience.
* 100% submissive bottom with a very high libido.
* I'm both a little and a pet (puppy). Either cgl or petplay (or both!) would be a required part of our dynamic for me.
* Other kinks I'm into but aren't required are abdl, most things involving dom/sub power dynamics, light bondage, free use, praise. Eventually progressing to a 24/7 lifestyle would be ideal!
* Limits: bathroom stuff, degradation, cheating or open relationship, pain. I don't do sexual audio/video calls. Anything else I'm probably willing to try at least once!
#What I'm looking for:
* I have a strong preference for cis men but I am open to other genders. I am only sexually interested in people who have a penis.
* Mostly interested in a monogamous relationship but I could be open to polyamory with the right people.
* I want a real, loving, romantic relationship alongside the kink. I don't want to be someone you only talk to when you're horny or bored.
* Looking for a softer dom. What I want out of submission is to feel loved and cared for by my dom rather than just strictly controlled.
* I need a very patient person who understands that I'm new to doing this. Please don't try to force things immediately and be prepared to possibly take things slow.
If you've read this far please send me a message if you're interested in getting to know me! I prefer to chat on discord but that's not required. Also, keep in mind that I type a lot sometimes so please be okay with reading a few sentences per message.
I hope you have a good day!
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