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My experiences irl have only been as a sub, but in the past few years I’ve found that I have this dominant side yearning to be freed but was never fully aware of how it would come out in me until I discovered the types of dynamics that include “mommy”.
To me, it shares parallels with being a mistress or slave owner, but with a cushioned kind hearted exterior presentation that suits my personality more, while still giving room to delve into power play and general imbalance that comes from a d/s relationship.
I’m bi, and certainly have an attraction to Masc people, but find a lot of the time my domme side comes out more when talking to femme/nb people over someone overtly masc, I’m always happy to chat to anyone but do know I find a lot of my attraction in d/s from the aesthetics (as a lot of it has only been internal within my imagination haha).
I don’t like listing kinks, I find it very situational and with different people, what I enjoy and what I consider limits to fluctuates, although I don’t like sending pics right off the bat, learned that the hard way, and it is a lot easier to scope if someone is trust worthy just based on if they are patient enough to wait for things to grow organically before getting pushy (bad move if you wanna stay on a dommes good side).
I also struggle to keep up with messaging constantly due to my work, so if you need instant responses and gratification look elsewhere.
Come say hi! Super vague I know but I feel like at this early stage if I try to be too specific with my wants I may find myself turning down opportunities I would otherwise like given the opportunity.
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