The intellectual stimulation excites me. I am looking forward to the witty banter, the non-important small things we share, which allow us to revel in sweeter things.

I am lonely. It’s been years in the relationship, and I want someone who wants to invest in me as much as I do them. I am a relatively easy-going guy with a type A personality at work. I love my kids to death and spend a lot of time investing in them and just being a goof ball. Well spoken, educated, with a dash of handsomeness. I cook most nights and enjoy throwing myself into the kitchen perfecting a recipe. There are always two books on my nightstand, and I use my library card religiously. I have all the dad jokes and enjoy being irreverent but countered by being sought after for my thoughts and opinions on things. I am 6’3,married (it’s ok if that not your thing, I wish you well on your search) fit and enjoy a good cocktail, conversation, and a conversation full of Gifs.

On the darker side of things, I am looking forward to intellectual chase. Being Dominant is part of who I am and enjoy exploring the darker side of that. (I will leave that for a later conversation but suffice to say I revel in the mind calisthenics and seduction of the Dominant/Submissive relationship). To be more specific I am looking for a woman who wants to take time to build the trust, to be willing to unabashadely hand herself over to me in every way. To be owned. To be known in a way she never has before and know that I am there to care for her needs, emotionally, spiritually, intellectually, and sexually. No one would likely guess how you crave to submit, you are a normal woman, mom, etc, but you have these cravings and desires. Somewhere deep inside of you, maybe you can point to a specific time or place, or maybe you feel its always been there. You find joy in obedience, you crave being wanted and desired and to know you are pleasing in everything you do. You desire the discipline required and revel in the positive reinforcement required to get to the place of trusting. You salivate at exploring this and wanting to give in to our desires. To understand ownership and passion. This is not for the feint of heart or whimsical flights of fancy. This is real, this is here, this is now.

I am looking for a relationship. That is what this is between two people ultimately right? I want you to be free to be yourself and be you. Dancing is something we will do on a date, laughing deeply and until we hurt will be a must. Looking for just one person, not multiple people once we have connected. You should be comfortable sharing your day-to-day life with me and looking forward to sneaking a quick peak at your phone for that text I just sent, and the devilish grin or snort you let out when you check it.

Let’s have fun with this.

If this is something you may be interested in, I want you to stop. Think about it, before you reach out, re-read my post, get into my head and decide if this is what you truly want. Then reach out. the words will find you.

;l

I eagerly await your response.