A bit about me (everyday life):

I'm a PhD student in Alberta. I'm extremely introverted, ambitious, and weird. Weirdly enough, my ambitions are unrelated to my PhD, so I'm just doing it to get enough money to live while working on my passions. Also very interested in history, international politics, world religions and ideologies, literature... and could talk for hours on end about these things. I like to have fun with the occasional movie, series, game... I've been trying to get back into some sports; I'm trying basketball (turns out I'm 💩 at it) and getting back into table tennis. And I'm currently somewhat obsessed with chess.

Based in Calgary, AB, and don't mind starting online and meeting later. I've done a lot of traveling, so this should be doable wherever you are.

I'm mainly interested in females (up to 31 yo) but am also open for relationships with males (up to 27 yo). Also note that I'm looking for an actual relationship, not a sexual outlet.

Kink-wise:

Subbing:

Note that I'm willing to be a sub in as extreme a sense of the word as you'd like. I'm OK with a normal relationship built on a slight dom/sub dynamic exclusively in the bedroom, and I'm also OK with 24/7 TPE. It's your decision what level of domination the relationship should be built on.

Females: I've always known (before I even knew what sex actually was) that I'm attracted to strong women and that I like to be controlled. This extended into my adulthood, which is why I'm always excited about any Femdom/GFD/RR aspect that includes giving up control willingly or even (consentually) unwillingly (bondage, chastity, forced stuff, overpowering,......); it's just hot in a very weird way. Physically, I'm OK with any body type except overweight women (sorry 🙁).

This is what I like, but I have never tried anything in real life. This will most probably not change until I meet someone I really click with and believe I'll stay with long-term. This is simply because to me, acting submissive with a woman is sort of like having sex in a normal relationship; I believe in saving it for the right person 😇

Males: Also interested in male doms. However, I do have a peculiar taste in guys. Usually, the males I find attractive and would be very interested in are skinny guys (the skinnier the better), especially if he's also a bit fit :) You could think of Kpop stars to understand the archetype I'm describing. Unfortunately, I think the Venn Diagram of "skinny guys" and "doms" would have a very, very small area in the middle 😭

Doming:

I do not have a dominant bone in my body. However, I am curious about how bondage is set up, so if you like to be tied up, I might be able to help. I will not get any pleasure from it; just plain curiosity.

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Here are pics of me and of my BDSM test results.

If you think we can match in any way, please don't hesitate to message me.