I don’t want to write a small essay on here, so forgive me if any of the details appear vague, but hopefully you’ll find something you like enough to drop me a message.

I’m 26, M from London and a Music graduate. I’m 5ft11 with long hair, a beard, a bunch of tattoos and a slim but toned built due to the nature of my work. I’ve been off the dating scene for a few years after my 6 year relationship ended abruptly. We were vanilla together and I always felt like there was a big hole in my heart which had been filled previously by the deeper level of intimacy a d/s entwined relationship entails. I recently got promoted at work to manage so I feel slightly more confident with the stability in my personal life enough to get out there and find someone long term to share the highs and lows of life with.

Outside the bedroom I enjoy a good game, have less time to play recently but I would like to find the time with someone worth dedicating it for. My academic history is in music so I’m a big fan of cuddling up listening to an album, discovering new music, going to gigs or most importantly playing. Also an amateur woodworker/luthier.

Within the bedroom and generally within the relationship I enjoy enforcing power dynamics. I like it to come from a place of respect both ways, as much as I like to feel in charge and be a voice of authority in my partners life, I endure my partner feels seen as a human being and the interpersonal relationship between us stay mutual so everyone is happy.

Kinks are situational, I prefer to be addressed as master/daddy over sir but some people just don’t suit that dynamic which I personally don’t see as a barrier, flexibility is important.

The specifics can come out through organic conversation and good times. So if you like the sound of what I’ve detailed above, and would like to chat to see if we connect, feel free to drop me a message. I’m bi with no gender preference so as long as we eye to eye, we should have a good time together.