This post is probably gonna on the lenghtier side. This is only because I want to give you as many elements to assess whether we are a good match or not. Please don't construe this as me being self-absorbed, I guarantee, I'm far more interested in knowing about you than in hearing my own voice.

The Person

I'm 30 years old. I was born and raised in Mexico, where I lived until I was 28. For around 7 of those I was a corporate lawyer specialized in Mergers and Acquisitions and Financial Regulation (basically my job was to make people who had money make even more money. Admittedly, not the most fulfilling endeavor, but someone had to put bread on the table). I want to think I have left that life behind, but lets see what the future holds.

I moved to Europe around July 2022, initially to the Canary Islands, then to Amsterdam to do an LLM (amazing year) and, finally, this year to Madrid to study a new Masters program in humanitarian aid and international cooperation. Ideally I would like to remain in Europe and work at an NGO in refugee protection or international development.

My hobbies include reading, videogames, indoor climbing and urban art and grafitti (a subject I'm deeply passionate about and that I study as much as I can). I am a half-decent cook with a particular love for homemade pesto and pastas, and have a basically nigh-unlimited love for all animals I encounter except for the annoying fly in my room that is currently distracting me. Music is a huge part of my life and I'm always in the lookout for new, interesting artists to listen too (currently obsessed with Emmet Cohen and Angelique Kidjo)

Physically I'm on the short-king size (1.58, weird for a guy who likes indoor climbing, I know), black hair, brown eyes, decently fit, have 4 tattoos and one piercing, hoping to get another one. Generally speaking I'm very average looking, which means I have had to develop a personality, whether it is a good or a bad one, I will leave up to you. I can say I have been described as "the most confident shy person I have met" and "I thought you were gay cause you have no ounce of toxic masculinity".

I am extremely far left both politically and economically. While I do not dismiss someone based on purely political beliefs, there are certain beliefs I am completely incompatible with (you can probably guess which ones)

The Dom

As a Dom I am that combination of someone who truly enjoys humiliation, degradation, objectification and all matters related to power differences with praise and recognition. I enjoy both the rough moment and the mental domination of having you ackownledge your darkest, deepest desires (in as insulting a way as possible) and the sweet moments of watching a movie cuddled up.

Other than those, I have some practices I am a huge fan of: sensory deprivation, orgasm control and denial, light public play, remote-controlled devices, wax, blindfolds, collars, leashes, breath-play, bondage, control outside the bedroom (so, outfit control mostly, although it extends to other small games). In truth, it is way easier to find practices I like than the ones I don't (although there are obvious limits. Minors, anything related to animals and extreme sadism are no-nos for me).

I am of the idea that if there is chemistry, the BDSM aspect takes a secondary role and evolves on its own, so I will not delve much further into it, but if you have any questions, feel free to ask

About you

As mentioned, I currently reside in Spain, so ideally you would be located within continental Europe. I am open to an online thing, and obviously do not expect meeting right away, but I do hope for something that transitions into meeting in person once trust is built. Communication is essential, so while I can accept keeping things here for a bit, I'd like us to transition to whatsapp/telegram at some point. Identity can be verified from both sides once there is trust.

I do not mind much about age, my range would be 18-45, although I am flexible on the upper end, provided there is an actual connection. As I said, I am on the shorter end and know that may be an issue with some people, I do like taller girls as well as shorter ones, so this is not a problem for me (in fact, one of my fantasies is to meet someone tall enough for me to give head to while standing up, so do not fear that).

I'd love for you to be as kinky and pervy as me, if not even more so. Experience or lack thereof is not as important to me, and I find discovering new kinks and fetishes together is a huge part of the fun. In addition, I'd like us to be able to share in non-kink. I love discussing movies, books, current events, videogames and other subjects, so if we can hold a conversation that is mentally stimulating, you will be at the top of my wishlist.

I hope this brief introduction to me catches (some) eyes and to meet you soon.

Best,

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