Hi all,

I am an experienced Dom on the north side of Chicago looking for a long-term femboy sub. I am a 6'1", 26M white male. I follow the rule of sixes that people keep talking about these days - I'm over six feet, I make six figures, and I have a cock longer than six inches. I also have a good amount of experience as a Dom for cis-fem subs - they would describe me as a proper sadist and brat tamer, but also experienced with aftercare and respecting limits.

I've dated women before who want to be shown off, and deserve to be, and I love showing them off. I love the taste of arm candy. I have also dated women before who want to be broken down in the bedroom, and I also love it. I love the saltiness of a good submissive's tears. What I want, but I can't get through the dating apps and my daily life, is a the sub who wants to be broken down, made desperate, subservient, and pliable, and who will be built up into the arm candy I want.

That's where you come in. I want to break you down, train you, and build you into the good sub you want to be and I want to own. You will offer yourself readily for my (and therefore your) pleasure, trusting me as your Dominant who knows what is best. My gaze and touch will make you feel small and inferior, both mentally and physically, but it will also make you feel safe and that you are in your rightful place at my will.

Regular facets of our relationship, both in training and long-term, include your chastity, feminization, training, impact play, degradation, humiliation, and free use. Other kinks I'd like to explore include: cock worship, bimbofication, objectification, sensory deprivation, slapping, basic (e.g., less risky) public play, rubber/latex, videotaping, and potentially group sex. I like marks, begging, tears, and making your dutifully-applied makeup run down your face. Expect to be allowed few orgasms, and humiliating ones at that. Expect to be one of multiple subs I own; to a lesser extent, you may be shared with other Doms (all safely and within reason).

I will invest in our mutual goals for you as a person and as a dutiful submissive; this could include monetarily (toys, tools, or even cosmetic modifications for the right sub), but this is not a sugar-based relationship.

Please note that this is not a hookup or a short-term relationship. This is not necessarily a 24/7 dynamic but I expect that some facets that you can't just take off. That said, there will be a ramp up period that we can discuss individually. I do intend this to be online at first as you become accustomed to my expectations - I am more than happy to trade pictures when we are both comfortable, though.

Otherwise, I'd like you to be smaller than me, reasonably fit, and ideally my age or younger; I allow few exceptions here. I'd like this to be a local connection or at least in person regularly (say, two weekends per month in Chicago), and I live alone so I can host. Please be vaccinated against COVID and otherwise DDF; this is not negotiable.

Please send a message WITH SOME INFORMATION ABOUT YOURSELF if you think you'd be a good fit. I do not expect your life story, but please your age and location, some sort of detail into your life, and why we might be a good fit for each other. I look forward to hearing from you!