Are you naturally inclined towards service? Feel those flutters when told to carry out a task, and on seeing a satisfied smile when youâve served well? Do you have a thing for the bowed head, the unspoken servitude? The thrill of gambling for a word of praise, or degradation that may just bring you to tears?
Weâre looking for you.
I assume sexual kink alone never hit the spot. Youâve found it does inspire submission, but it never lasted past the first climax. Or the second, if youâre lucky. Youâve tricked yourself into believing there is a purpose past serving another, and yet find yourself craving for more daily. To be seen as nothing more but an object for anotherâs satisfaction. To know youâll be useful, because youâll be trained well.
Who We Are: We are a polyamorous couple searching for a non-sexual (sexual may be eventually possible, to be discussed) service submissive. Weâre communicative (to a fault), and both take quite a while to get comfortable with new people. Once weâve warmed up to you, weâre usually quite talkative, love having deeper conversations and cracking (absurdly stupid) jokes.
Her Letâs call her S. His. Collared. Owned. A switchy streak she has yet to explore. Quite shy at first, often found with a blush on her face and giggling at whatever humorous statement he has come up with. She cooks, she cleans, she flies (not really) and she is one hell of an amazing housewife who loves living out her little 1950âs traditional role fantasy. Very kinky. Very much a bottom, but occasionally enjoys service-topping A(see below), who is ironically, a huge masochist despite having no submissive urges whatsoever. Makes for an interesting constellation. She loves beng bossed around by him, but is discovering she does like bossing around another, and gets a little high off, to quote her, âgetting a big strong man to do what I wantâ. Sheâs conventionally attractive. Green eyes, blonde hair, with one hell of a sexy body (can you tell this is being written by A) with which she loves to tease people to death. 10/10 would recommend.
Him Letâs call him A. Dominant. Writer. Musician. Singer. Psychologist/researcher in the making. A Jack of all trades, and the lucky Master of one dedicated submissive. Generally introverted, traditionally masculine (think take out the trash and build stuff, not hunt and bring the catch home, Iâm not that skilled yet). Just as kinky as she is (a lot), although his main kink remains control. Everything else is âjust a cute little additionâ. Demisexual. Literal thinker. Hereâs where he demands you share the last song you listened to so he knows youâve read this properly. He likes reading, arts, photography, long hikes, talking about his many hyperfixations and making sweet little things cry under a firm hand. Huge sadist. Heâs good at finding little sore spots and poking right at them. Heâs even better at giving headpats and physical touch right after. Darker skin, tattooed, decently athletic build. Long hair. Wears glasses. Often complains that he's too short for his liking.
The following shouldnât quite have to be added but here we go. We both value personal boundaries and prioritize a comfortable and harmonious environment where everyone gets along and is satisfied with the arrangement. We will not meet anyone in person before talking for an extended period of time online. Conversation first will be through A, and after a few days, involve the both of us.
What We're Looking For: - Dependability. - Versatility: We both are involved in a bunch of activities as do want to have someone to boss around and give little tasks throughout the day, punctuated by praise and/or humiliation/degradation. - Excellent Communication (or working on it: Tell us what youâre interested in. Tell us where the boundaries are. Tell us if something goes wrong. Letâs talk. - Trustworthiness: We need to feel safe and secure in your presence. We do want to grow to be comfortable having you around in our house, but until then, we need to build a certain level of rapport online, meet in public now and then. - Respect for Boundaries: Nothing to add there. No is a no. Consent is sexy. As much as A may get a high off making someone feel like all they could possibly do can never be enough to serve adequately and to eventually bring them to tears and watch them break? He canât do that if he canât trust theyâll safeword out of it if itâs genuinely crossing a boundary. No fun for anyone.
What We Offer: - Competitive compensation (up to ten âGood boy/girls an hour depending on performance). - Friendship. - Very clear communication. - Potential future sexual involvement (to be discussed in detail), assuming we really get along. - Some amazing food. (S is way too good at cooking/baking.) - Great sounding board. (A is way too good at being objective and unbiased.)
How to Apply: 1. A brief introduction - we want to know who you are! 2. What you enjoy about submission and servitude (general, sexual, domestic, (insert term Iâm yet to learn)). 5. What you would expect out of such an arrangement.
Weâre looking forward to hearing from you!
Cheers, A and S.
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