I'm a 35 year old white Dom from Hagerstown MD. I'm blonde with blue eyes, pics in my profile for up front honesty. I've been called handsome and sexy, and know the right submissive is reading this somewhere. I'm looking for a submissive that's hopefully local, but I'm good with starting online for now as well if necessary. Trying to find the kinky partner I need to get back to being truly who I am. I'm open to anything from a fuck buddy to a long term thing, it just depends on that spark. Not looking to burn anything down, or change who you are. I just want someone to re-ignite what's been built and waiting to have that flamethrower taken to it.

Kink wise, I'm probably best described as a mix between a pleasure Dom, sadist, and horny teenager. I'm big on oral, both giving and receiving, as well as orgasm control, spanking, teasing, breast play, and some bondage.. I am very much a breast man, but I'm open to all body types, races, and relationship statuses. I'm not trying to change you, just enjoy our time together. I like to earn my sub's submission through pleasure and personality, but do have a rough side when agreed upon. Some CNC experience, as well as TPE.

Non-Kink wise I'm a nerdy guy who also loves sports, especially baseball and hockey. Movie lover, used to work at Hollywood Video for years(I know, I'm old) and love a good movie discussion. I can hold my own on just about any topic, although there are a few I avoid just because they're not worth the time. I'm the guy who makes the dumb quote and the humor when I'm nervous.

I live alone and can have you over whenever you'd like, I love to cook and a home-made dinner date sounds like heaven. Currently don't have a car on the road, but do have a flexible schedule to host any time. I know I'm a bit further out than most Maryland posts, but I'm hoping to find somebody localish to have a good time with. I am 420 friendly, but also understand if you aren't. I'm also good with starting online, but I do appreciate the finer parts of in person BDSM. It's also the best season to be around a big guy, I cuddle on an expert level.