TL/DR: Looking for a strong & independent woman, with a burning desire to submit, to start a monogamous D/s relationship with. Please read my entire post. If my post is still up, then I am still looking.
Me: I am a quiet and unassuming guy, with a very laid-back personality resulting in a healthy mixture of confidence, assertiveness and wit. I am 5'11" 180 lbs, physically fit, fair skinned with red hair and beard. No piercings, no tattoos and I am DDF. I am educated with a B.A. and an M.B.A. I am primarily an introvert, but I do enjoy a night out on the town. I am a certified cuddle slut & big spoon; Physical Touch is my primary love language. I am a loving & affectionate Partner & I adore non sexual intimacy & togetherness such as hand holding, chore sharing, grocery store trips, & evening dog walks. I am financially stable and a homeowner.
I like to stay fit by living an active lifestyle through my hobbies and my weight lifting routine. I am an aspiring whiskey connoisseur, amateur art enthusiast, consumer of books and a fairly decent home cook. This year I have hiked Big Bend, The Grand Canyon, Zion & Bryce Canyon and I just returned from a fantastic trip to Scotland! Depending on the season, there is a strong chance I am hunting in the great outdoors, or fishing in the Gulf of Mexico. I am also very capable and handy, so bring on your DIY projects!
I am a Loving Pleasure Daddy Dom. I have 4.5 years of experience, so Iām not a rookie, but Iām not an expert either. My style of Domination is mostly D/s with certain portions of Dd/lg (No age play/regression). My method of Domination revolves heavily around Ownership, Power Exchanges & Free Use with certain elements of Discipline & Predator/prey sprinkled in. D/s is a facet of my life that I like to keep private, and when in a relationship I only want to share it with my sub as it is one more thing to deepen and strengthen our emotional bond. My Hard limits are the heavy forms of pain as well as Age Play/Regression, Animals, anything Illegal, Blood, Body Mods, Diapers, Permanent Marks, Pet Play, Scat, Puke & Urine.
You: A strong, capable, ambitious, independent & intelligent woman who is in control of her work, social life and hobbies. You are single, emotionally available, health conscious, active, physically fit, and you prioritize your mental health. You are also drug and disease free. I love to manhandle and feel a size difference, so shorter and slimmer ladies are strongly preferred. Traits I value in a Partner are kindness, class, empathy, maturity, emotional intelligence and a strong moral character.
Within the context of a relationship, you have a burning desire to thoroughly and completely submit, obey and be owned, but be loved, respected and cherished for it. I do not want to Dominate your entire life, just within the context of our relationship. You allow me to own your heart, mind, body & soul in the same way that you allow me to love you, thoroughly & completely. I will cherish you for the pleasure you give me, and reciprocate with the pleasure you deserve. I will love you like my Princess, but fuck you like my personal whore.
Conclusion: The kind of relationship I envision is a slow burn built on an intense emotional connection, commitment and friendship, bonded by trust and communication, so I want to spend time getting to know each other first. If politics is one of your main personality traits, then we are not the best match.
- Must Haves:
- 25-35
- Biological woman
- Gainfully employed.
- Drug & Disease Free
- Prioritize mental health.
- Marriage & possibly children one day.
- Physically fit/regular gym attendance.
- Short & slim build strongly preferred. (I love a size difference)
- Openness to relocation eventually. (if not local)
- Desire an emotional connection before a physical one.
If this resonated with you, I would love to hear from you. Kindly include your age and a bio about yourself in your initial message. Your pictures get mine.
Cheers!
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