A naturally dominant man, I look for a stimulating mind, a beautiful soul, and an appealing physique, coming together in a lovely, submissive package. Perhaps you've read this message in a bottle for the first time. Maybe you're reading these words for the very first time. Regardless, if you're thinking about it, you may want to take a chance. After all...

I may be looking for you

Based in the heavenly tropics, I spent a few weeks in the US East Coast this past spring and recently came back from a wonderful summer spent wandering between Spain, Switzerland, the Netherlands, Korea, and Japan. Travel is a possibility, now and in the future. No matter where you are, if we are meant to find each other, we'll find a way.

Find your bliss in my happiness, devote yourself to me, and let's find out if we are meant to be. Let's create our own personal slice of heaven. Even from afar, I know how to be creative and physical barriers should pose no obstacle to the many thrills we can and will enjoy together.

What we build together could be a temporary respite. It could also be something more lasting. Beyond the time we spend together, what I wish to find is a meaningful connection.

Me

I love arts and culture; enjoy reading and writing; and like to discuss films and literature. I have strong opinions but consider myself flexible, taking pleasure in talking about existential subjects while also partaking in light-hearted moments. A healthy bond is built on trust and balance; It's nice to be with someone you can be serious and have fun with at the same time.

I intend to listen, get to know, and guide you to become both the best version of yourself and the kind of woman I want by my side. Beyond BDSM, the softer side of things strongly appeals to me. Should we build a relationship, I wish for a traditional, loving, highly sexual, and D/s-based bond.

A perfectionist, I am strict, can be quite the disciplinarian, and work best with a girl who knows who she is and what she wants or someone looking to develop a better structure in her life.

you

This bears repeating: I'm looking for a kind, intelligent, and beautiful girl who cares about the world and those who live in it. Someone who takes good care of her body but favors even more cultivating her mind and soul. All the better if she likes reading novels and short stories, watching arthouse films, and visiting museums and art galleries around the world.

Heart and humanity matter most, but physical appearance is also important to me. I favor traditional beauty standards and I am drawn to women who are height-weight proportionate, perhaps with lovely curves on a slim frame, but ideally petite, on the slimmer and fitter side of things.

Age is not a major factor to me. I pay more attention to your essence and look for a cultured, confident, smart, physically active, sensitive, empathetic, beautiful, sexy, warm, and cheerful girl.

Us

I ask for integrity, honesty, kindness, sincerity, loyalty, faithfulness, and obedience. To these core values I add respect and empathy; those are a must at all times: before, during, and even after anything that may develop between us. Let’s become friends, lovers, and true partners who care deeply for and immensely enjoy each other's company.

Kink-wise, I favor discipline, physically demanding tasks and control, love public humiliation, dabble in light bondage, enjoy dishing out a good spanking now and then, like to be playful and adventurous and vary things, going from primal to sensuous, raw and aggressive to soft and gentle.

I like to indulge in the finer things of life, while caring more about experiences than status, luxury, and possessions. Hopefully we share that mindset. Love to travel, too. Shall we plan our first trip together?

be Mine

I ask that you accept me being involved with other women while you devote yourself solely to me. You could be nonchalant about it, yet you're just as likely to have let out a loud sigh. Atypical though these circumstances may prove - and I understand they could prove challenging - I trust you'd find our relationship quite rewarding nonetheless.

I want us both to be happy and fulfilled. I believe we very well could be. Why not give it a try? Should you feel ready for that leap of faith, then reach out. Tell me about yourself and your everyday life. Send a picture or two with your first message so we get that out of the way.

Boldly take that first step in my direction. It should be worth it. Autumn is here and while the leaves fall, life may be passing us by. Fun needs not end with summer. In fact, it may just lie ahead.

Come to me