Hi there, I'm a 21-year-old college student seeking a meaningful connection within the realm of kinky dating. I'm attracted to the nuances and layers of relationships that involve elements of dominance, consensual abuse, and emotional maturity.
**Age and Preference**
I'm particularly drawn to age gaps and would prefer to connect with someone between the ages of 27 and 40.
**Masculinity and Feminism**
One aspect that captivates me is the fusion of primal masculinity and a feminist perspective. I'm looking for someone who embodies both strength and compassion, someone who can navigate the intricate balance between dominance and a respectful understanding of consent. While this dynamic would be power imbalanced in nature, I still want the person I'm engaging with to value and respect women.
**Emotional Maturity and Empathy**
Emotional maturity and empathy are qualities that I highly value in a partner. The ability to understand and connect on deeper emotional levels is crucial for me. I crave a connection where both parties can explore their desires while also providing emotional support and care for one another. I like to be clingy and want someone who I can actually trust and turn to, for things outside of kink.
**Kinks and Desires**
In terms of specific kinks and desires, I am into consensual abuse, including elements such as choking, slapping, degradation, psychological domination, and more. I enjoy the dichotomy of being both degraded and praised, as well as the constant switch between love, kindness, and sadism. It excites me to be operantly conditioned into reacting and responding in new ways. I also really like the taboo aspect of the D/s dynamic, and have very gently dabbled in DDLG. However, I generally do not like that to be the central focus of the dynamic, but little hints and sprinkles of that can be fun and add an extra layer of excitement to the mix.
**Complexity and Ownership**
I find great appeal in the complexities of love, care, abuse, and ownership. The interplay of these emotions creates a unique and profound connection for me. I'm specifically drawn to Daddy Dom and Owner style dynamics, as they provide a framework for deep exploration and connection.
**Physical Attraction and Photos**
Physical attraction is an important aspect for me to fully delve into the dynamic. Therefore, I would be open to sharing photos relatively soon in our communication to ensure that we have a genuine and mutual physical attraction. I believe it enhances the overall experience and enables us to explore our desires more authentically.
Physically, I'm drawn to individuals who possess certain qualities such as height, muscular build, possibly tattoos, fitness, and overall well-groomed appearance. Additionally, I have a fascination with deep voices that have a genuine and satisfying depth.
If you resonate with any of these aspects and believe we might connect on multiple levels, I'd love to hear from you.