A dom seeking a sub for both conversation and tasks/challenges. What kind of conversations and tasks? Well conversations can be anything from how your day has been or something that's gone well or not so great to your interests and of course the spicy side of things. As for challenges/tasks they could be as simple as make sure you eat properly and drink enough water to as dirty as you feel comfortable with. Before adding spice to the relationship, I'd prefer to get to know you a little especially kinks and limits, I will respect yours all I ask is you also respect mine. Timezones like to cause chaos and work/life can get in the way of fun so I don't mind if it's a case of send some messages and wait overnight for a reply (for those curious I'm in the UK)

Because this is the Internet and you may be 3 raccoons in a trenchcoat posing as a good human being I will not show my face, and nor do I expect you to if you don't feel comfortable.

I prefer the instant chat on reddit rather than the email-style dm - tell me your favorite colour so I know you have read this

Enough rambling about what I am looking for, here's a little about me: I love adventure sports particularly skiing, sailing and white water kayaking I play rugby (currently injured so don't play at the moment) I'm just as happy sitting inside watching the rain bounce on the window as I am chasing the downpour to the rivers to kayak. I do seasonal work as a watersports instructor where boring adult work allows I'm patient and compassionate and a huge advocate for mental health support (if the kinky side has no appeal but you want to talk, feel free) it may nit be the best advice but I'll do my best. I have a list of kinks as long as my arm and am open to plenty more which can be discussed later Hard limits include: Baby play, scat, beast, non-con, gore

If its not listed but its a particularly taboo kink, just ask me I don't judge