Good evening!

After a couple of months away from Reddit I thought i'd give this another go, it does kind of feel like I am searching for a needle in a haystack at this point, but there's no harm in trying again I guess.

Firstly, I apologise in advance for the lengthy post - I just think it's easier to be as clear as possible about who I am, and who/what I am seeking. Also, please note that I have NO interest at all in DDLG/ age play, Daddies, Married men, online dynamics or speaking to anyone younger than me. Please respect this :)

So, a bit about me... I am 25, straight, single, and live alone in one of the 'Shires (about an hour from London). I work part time in admin, I Love cooking, baking, travelling, and spending time with friends and family.

Now is probably a good time to mention that I am autistic - this does not hold me back too much in life, I am able to work and live alone, drive (learning to!) etc. I have managed to mask well over the years and have my own way of coping with certain situations, though I can be very shy and it does take me time to warm to and trust new people.

Physically I am white, around 5'3, curvy build, long straight auburn hair, hazel eyes, often wear glasses... and small boobs, and a VERY tight pussy! I am basically a plain Jane, don't tend to wear make up and certainly no fake tan!

I have always had an interest in kink/BDSM for as long as I can remember. And about 4 years ago I began seeing an older guy on and off who (once trust was built) used restraints on me, riding crops, blindfolds, toys, and had general rough sex with me. It was still on the 'vanilla side' and he wasn't a Dom, but it was a great introduction to kink and has left me wanting more! Purely vanilla relationships are no longer fulfilling for me.

I am looking to begin a D/s dynamic with an EXPERIENCED Dom. A Dom who would be able to train and guide me on my submissive journey. A dynamic with rules, structure, tasks and punishments, and a dynamic that is present, even in subtle ways during every day life. I am open to TPE eventually.

In terms of what I am looking for in a Dom, someone who is SINGLE, experienced, genuine, caring, patient, has a sadistic/dark side, older (28-50) and strong both physically and mentally - I prefer guys who keep fit and look after themselves.

I have a long list of kinks that I'd love to explore:

restraints, impact play, breath play, choking, humiliation, degradation, edge/fear play, nipple torture, orgasm control/denial, punishments, face slapping, CNC and MUCH more!

Obviously i have limits - anything illegal, pet play, age play, blood, scat, vomit, cutting, snapchat...

I am very new to this, other than my experiences with the older guy, so please be patient with me. I am not looking to be thrown in at the deep end.

A couple of other points:

Despite living alone I would not feet comfortable hosting at mine, I rarely even let friends or family over, I like to keep my home as my 'safe space' for me. (probably an autism thing).

I will be happy to share a face pic only once we have built up a bit of connection and some trust, please do not hound me about this.

I don't do busses, and I am not a huge fan of trains. I am learning to drive - in fact I am just waiting to take my test, I already have a car. So, if we get to the stage of meeting we would need to plan where/ how etc.

I will ignore any messages that demand I call you Sir or Master straight away, demand pictures or are sexual from the beginning. Bit of a red flag for me...

Okay, I think that covers most of it! Sorry for going a bit Karen towards the end... I just want to be as clear as possible about what I am (and am not) after.

Feel free to message me, if you haven't been put to sleep by my long post that is.

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~ M x