You are unsatisfied, unfulfilled, and have so much to desire because deep down you always have known your sexual needs are much more… you are different. Vanilla is not enough. You desire to have body shaking orgasm over and over so good that you beg for more.

To me, dominance is not paddles, ropes, and whips…. it's rather a someone who knows every inch of your body, every sexual desire and fantasy, and every physical need you may have better than you yourself. Has the experience to teach you, gives you safe place to explores, and makes your fantasies into reality.

It means when you have trusted dominant with a firm grip around your neck...you don't feel explore you start to drip wet with excitement that you are under the safe control of someone who will challenge the level of pleasure you are capable of experiencing. That you can finally be yourself.

You don’t just have a desire to be slut…you NEED to be yourself. And you need someone to give you a safe place to help you explore who you really are.

If this interests, you….AND you are serious…. let’s talk.

I’m very selective because it takes a lot of time and energy to really dedicated yourself to a submissive's needs…so only reply if you are ready to stop being afraid and take a leap of faith…into yourself and your undeniable sexual needs.
Me: I’m 5’9, 175lbs, mixed race professional. I’m 38 years old.
You: Be younger, height weight proportionate, and within realistic distance for us to meet IRL.
Write “control me” in subject so I know you’re serious. Tell me about yourself. Include height, weight, body type, and why you replied.

Tell me who you are sexually now: Conservative, Shy, vanilla, flirty, slutty, whorish…and who you desire to be.
Tell me if you are single or in a committed relationship.
Tell me your top fantasies.

No serious reply will go unanswered, take your time and be serious. If you are looking for one night fling, move on....this is not for you.