HEY, my name’s Dom and I am posting here in hopes to find my forever Domme! I am willing to talk to someone for some time before things develop sexually and get to know our vanilla selves before entering a dynamic.

I have had past D/s dynamics and finished all on good terms. My previous dommes have called me cute so if that's the kind of sub you like, I may be your ideal submissive. I've had my fun but I am looking for something long term and would not be interested in dom flings.

I am going to try and keep this short but my chats are open if you want to find out more - I will be happy to speak for however long before jumping into a dynamic if that’s something we decide we want.

To be specific, I am looking for something long term and ideally you are in the UK but I am open to more (mr. Worldwide 😎). I am only interested in IRL being the end goal and although I like online play I would not be satisfied with this for the long term.

So why am I into femdom? There’s a lot I could say but to keep it brief, I've always been attracted to dominant women as long as I can remember and as I've gotten into kink and explored myself I have enjoyed been submissive and yes. This means I will not try to domme you. It really isn't for me and I do not find it anywhere near as fun as submission.

You might have guessed with the desire for a FLR that this extends more than a sexual fantasy for me. I've experienced that and now I'm looking for something more fulfilling. When my domme wears the key to my chastity belt it not only represents her ownership of my cock but also my heart, soul, and mind. I find this deeply romantic and a firm way of knowing my place in and outside the bedroom.

In terms of appearance, I'm happy to share a pic of me if we click but I'm 6’1 slim white British. Not looking to pay but I'm willing to travel for the right person within the UK including Ireland (flights are cheap). But open to more further a field, again, if the right person came along. I could work a long distant relationship.

Preferably you are 21-35 but happy to go outside that as long as you are 18 . Main thing is you want long term and not just a fling.

In terms of what I like

Body worship and adoration I do like a caring domme Degradation/humiliation/affectionate manipulation (I love love love these) CNC (I have creative ideas on how to do this online) and forced/ruined orgasms Chastity and controlled orgasm Objectification and slave/owner dynamic Piss play

Limits

CBT (my last dom loved this, it was her favourite thing but it was a soft limit for me and I came to hate it - this wasn't what ended the dynamic). Scat Blood Anything that could get me in hospital

Soft limits, things I will need to explore

Anal/pegging

While not really liking physical pain I love intense feelings and emotions. I’ve been in my sub space a number of times and know how happy of a place it is for me. The thril and shared intensity of this sub and dome space is really what has me searching.

Feel free to ask me any questions about this post. Hope to hear from you soon.

I know a lot don't care about politics but if thst is a compatability element for you, I'm a fiscal conservatice with a more liberal/left attitude towards social issues. I call myself centrist/moderate but I do believe in small state and no this doesn't mean no state. I can talk more about this if it is a detail you care about.

I've also not said anything about me that is SFW. I have a number of interests and will save this for the chat :)

P.s. We will be verifying with each other before entering a dynamic. Last guy messaged me a bit and pretended to be a girl which is weird.