My god I just want someone to tell me about their day.

Do people not do this anymore? Where has all the romance gone?

I want you to tell me about the apocalyptic morning you've had at work and how incompetent your boss and coworkers are, while I tell you that you're strong and beautiful and intelligent and that things will get better.

I want to hear the same jokes you make every morning about how you cant function without coffee or this month's flavor of tea.

I want to cheer you on when you start a new passion project or celebrate after you nailed that presentation.

I want to listen to the guilty pleasure songs you play on repeat to get you through the tough days, as well as the upbeat soundtracks you blare when your day couldn't possibly get any better.

I want to share a palette and a canvas while we sip on wine neither of us can pronounce.

I want to know your thoughts while we lay awake watching the stars.

I want to know the depths of what terrifies you, and what widens your eyes in wonder.

I want someone who understands that I order water at a restaurant because soda does not taste that good.

I want you to tell me your favorite foods so I can secretly fill up the garbage with my failed attempts, only to surprise you with a masterfully made dish when you get home from one of those long days.

I want you to be as annoyed with current events as I am and but be super excited to vote this year.

I want someone who complains that I have too many plants but will still water them when I forget.

I want someone who can humor the fact that I have short bursts of passion and buys too many things that I don't need.

I want someone that can laugh at the fact that I condemn modern capitalism but still pay for expedited shipping.

I want to wrap our bodies around each other under warm blankets while cool jazz plays softly in the background of a Friday night.

I want someone who will let me bury my head in their arms after I've had a rough day and make sure that I'm OK, because despite being a generally wonderful experience, life can still bring us all down sometimes, and it's OK to be vulnerable.

These days it seems like everyone in the Kink lifestyle skips right to the end, not many people are putting in the time or effort to build the trust and compassion that makes these relationships worth having, But I want to go through the journey more than I want to reach the destination.

Talking about some of the nice things I'm interested in, I'm more fond of bondage and orgasm control than the rest of the BDSM initialism and if you couldn't tell from the wall of text above I prefer the gentler side of things, not to say that I don't mind hard doming every now and then.

I'd probably do best with a rope bottom, Someone who loves being tied up/bound and gagged for extended periods of time in new and creative ways, if that's not something you're interested in, then we probably wouldn't work out (I'm also not super into rope, leather is just so much cleaner). But no partnership is a perfect match and most of the success comes from working to make sure your partner is satisfied. So I want to learn what excites you, and what I can do to get the passion burning in your eyes.

Ultimately I'm looking for a connection before doing anything. I'm taller than average with light brown skin and dark eyes, and I workout almost daily.

So hopefully that gives a clear picture but if it didn't feel free to ask me anything. I hope the scenario's pretty clear here, and if you did end up reading all the way up till here, I'd say you should leave a message and well, we'll see. Also, hate to say this but with the recent experiences I had, I am not looking to be with someone much younger than me.