Would you like to tell me about your day?

I wonder if people even do that anymore these days.

I want you to tell me about the apocalyptic morning you've had at work and how incompetent your boss & coworkers are, while I tell you that you're strong and beautiful and intelligent and that things will get better.

I want to hear the same jokes you make every morning about how you cant function without coffee or breakfast.

I want to cheer you on when you start a new passion project or celebrate after you nailed that presentation.

I want to listen to the guilty pleasure songs you play on repeat to get you through the tough days, as well as the upbeat soundtracks you blare when your day couldn't possibly get any better.

I want to know your thoughts while we lay awake watching the galaxies above, to see your eyes ignite when you see a shooting star.

I want to know the depths of what terrifies you, and what widens your eyes in amazement.

I want you to tell me your favorite foods so I can secretly snag it on the way home to surprise you when you get home from one of those long days.

I want to hear your lovely laugh when one day I inevitably finally flip my kayak over and go ass over tea kettle into the water. For me to pop back up above the water just seconds later to see you smiling and shaking your head at the absolute goofball you’ve chosen to spend your time with.

I want you to be as annoyed with current events as I am and but be super excited to vote this year.

I want someone who can humor the fact that I have short bursts of passion and gets into new hobbies that eventually burn out over a few weeks, but I’ll always cycle back to them eventually… eventually.

I want to wrap our bodies around each other under warm blankets while Lofi music plays softly in the background of a Friday night while the rain pours against the window pane.

I want someone who will let me bury my head in their arms after I've had a rough day and make sure that I'm okay, because despite being a generally wonderful experience, life can still kick us in the teeth, and it's OKAY to be vulnerable.

These days it seems like everyone in the Kink lifestyle skips right to the end, not many people are putting in the time or effort to build the trust and compassion that makes these relationships worth having, But I want to go through the journey, it’s critical in order to even remotely reach that end goal.

But since this is a BDSM personal I should probably talk about it. I’d like to give some context about my situation as well.

It's been quite a while since I last immersed myself in the world of BDSM as a Dominant. Life took an unexpected turn, and for the past five years, I found myself in a marriage devoid of kink. Although it was a valuable period for self-discovery and personal growth, that chapter of my life is coming to pass as with a mutual divorce. In the midst of everything I've come to realize that my passion for Domination & Submission, still burns deep within me. That’s an intimacy only few can truly comprehend.

However it does seem a bit daunting to step back “into the ring” as a Dominant role after being detached from that role for so long.

I won’t be perfect.

I still have plenty to learn, I have some damage, and I certainly have my flaws. But part of that is what drives me. To continue to see new perspective, to continue to heal, and to continue to improve.

Because life is a class & there is a new lesson everyday, so maybe let’s study it together?

I’ve learned that no partnership is a perfect match and most of the success comes from working to make sure your partner is supported & satisfied. So I want to learn what steadies you, comforts you, and what I can do to get the passion burning in your eyes.

Ultimately I'm looking for a connection before doing anything physical. I am a 23m who currently lives in the mid eastern part of NC, gainfully employed as well. I stand at a towering 5’6, brown hair, brownish eyes, and I workout almost daily. It would be nice to meet someone around my age who also likes living an active & healthy lifestyle while also occasionally enjoying a quiet weekend indoors. Ideally I prefer we’d both “have our shit together” in terms of a steady job, finances, healthy habits, and things of similar nature. I don’t think anyone needs to have it all planned out, but stability is a comforting thing for most anyone. I’ve found that TV dramas can be fun to watch, but not to live out 😅

Also while I am not entirely opposed to relocating for the right person, I would prefer if you were from the East Coast. If you happened to be from the North that would be just a bonus. I’m not tied to this state much longer and will eventually be moving North. And if it wasn't clear I am looking for something IRL but don't mind starting off online.

So I’ll draw this letter to a close, hopefully that gives a clearer picture but if it didn't feel free to ask me anything. And I know people don't just jump into deep emotional relationships and that it takes time, so if you were interested I hope we can begin talking and see where the flow takes us, just swing by and introduce yourself, maybe tell me about your day too? 😌