Alrighty then.

I’m a 36 year old dom from the east coast. I’ve been domming for the last 11 or 12 years and have a fair bit of experience. I definitely know what I like and I’m also looking to expand on that, so anything you’re able to bring to the table is welcome.

My dom style has been described as a caring sadist. While inflicting sexual and physical torture is fun, I’m also an advocate for aftercare and making sure my sub is properly pampered after a scene.

I've come to learn that I like degradation and humiliation, orgasm control and denial, teasing, spanking, overstimulation, nipple play, anal play, forced orgasms, bandage, gags, blindfolds, and more. I've dabbled in TPE and think it's great, but that's something we've got to build towards.

Outside of kink I'm really just a big nerd. Been arguing with coworkers about who the strongest member of the Justice League is and why James Bond needs another reboot. I read sci-fi/fantasy novels and watch shows I can quote. I'm a huge metalhead so I've always got something loud on tap to fill quiet moments.

I'm looking to build something. It doesn't have to become serious or life altering, but I'm tired of trying to play with people I have no real sense of. I do my best work when I can remember "oh, she likes Rush so let's pattern the vibrator after YYZ." So yes, I'd like to get to know you first. Maybe it'll become something, maybe we'll realize we're better suited as friends, and maybe you'll get sick of my lousy jokes and lame attempts at pickup lines. I don't know. But I'm here to try.

If you read this far then I thank you. If you care to message me please put your favorite color in the subject line. If you're sending a chat then make that your opener just so I know you read this.

I hope to hear from some of you.