(I appreciate responses with at minimum a paragraph or two of info about yourself and what you're looking for, and will ignore "hi"s and low effort intros. Thanks!)

I love the contrast of the gentle and sweet with the dark and naughty. Making sure my partner is happy and taken care of, fulfilling their darkest fantasies and seeding their mind with my own. Making them feel genuinely safe through extensive conversations about consent, limits, aftercare and emotional needs, and following through on my promises to respect them.

But I also like the dark and intense, telling my partner how good they are for me as I subject them to deep humiliation and vulnerability. Training them in the protocols and rituals I enjoy as acts of service and worship. Teaching them what I like to see, hear, and feel. Using their body and mind for my pleasure, and calling it so. Learning every inch of my partner's mind and body, having the ability to exploit their fantasies and reactions with precision, relentlessly teasing them to feed a slow mental burn that drops them deep into sub or pet space. Then having the power to cherish that fragile, compromised mind and take advantage of it (with consent)... knowing they are also getting deep satisfaction out of their use.

I really like slow, methodical and creative play. Orgasm control, sensation play, praise, sexual humiliation, training and protocols are my go-tos, though my entire kink list is too extensive to post here. Depriving my partner of pleasure and requiring them to beg me with their words and body, or ripping orgasms out of them with no regard for how overstimulated they may already be. Teaching poses, recited responses, and the proper ways to present. Cooing with a condescending smile while they tremble with pain or pleasure at my hand. Well communicated group play that respects all parties involved. My only limits are ABDL, filth/toilet play, animals, breath play, blood and intense impact play. To clarify, I'm not much into harsh degradation -- I prefer to stick to sexual humiliation. I'm attracted to folks on the feminine to androgynous presenting end of the spectrum!

I'm a heteroflexible cis white male, 28, with an average build (5'9" 170lbs), tattoos, piercings and maintained facial hair, an established white collar career, and two cute cats. Nerdy, foodie, politically liberal, history buff, big into board games and being outdoors. I have dated in the non monogamous space before, though I would be happy with monogamy as well.

Above all, I'm looking for a connection based on a healthy foundation of friendship and communication. Right up my alley would be someone who also enjoys absurd goofball humor, memes, good food, video games and enjoys being active / outdoorsy. I find passion really attractive, whether it be for a career or hobbies -- I love supporting people in their pursuits.

If you find any of this enticing, send me a message! I need a good amount of talking and getting to know each other before jumping into sexual or kinky play, and prefer discord as a platform. Hope to hear from you :)