Hey there, this feels like a pretty standard reddit post looking at how often the topic comes up on here. But I am throwing my message out to the world to see if anyone is interested.

I'm a gainfully employed, typically straight-presenting white guy who has had mostly vanilla relationships my whole life. However boring my relationship life has been, my porn collection has gotten more and more kinky with a lion's share going to femdom, male submission and general d/s dynamics. I made a fetlife account years ago and after a couple of false starts took a break. But I'm back again looking to see what may be out there.

Some tidbits about me:

I'm 31, 180lbs, going to the gym 3x a week and looking to get better. I work about 60hrs a week and have a wonderful cat who tries his best to help me get through the day. Music wise I am stuck in the early 2000s but I had to give up skinny jeans and denim vests when I started working 9-5s.

I'm really eager and enthusiastic about experimenting sexually, especially with things like anal play (straps, plugs, etc) and would be curious to even go so far as forced-bi or even being a shared toy between you and your friends. While I haven't done much besides a couple of drunk hookups, I'm very into something recurring and ongoing.

If you're new to this world too and want to experiment on your own, let's chat. If you're a seasoned vet and want to be a mommy mentor, I'd love to talk to you too. We can share videos, and see if there is chemistry, but ideally this is a just-the-bedroom type of dynamic at least for now.

One thing, I am not looking for an online thing. I've tried that a few times now and it doesn't get me going.

While the tag is M4F, I am open to all feminine presenting or androgynous people. It's all hot to me. M4F & M4T

Thanks for reading, I'm looking forward to chatting soon.