I’m inexperienced and as such I don’t have a list of kinks or limits to share. I’d like to explore with someone between 33-42.
I would describe myself as an emotional masochist, sex being secondary to the thrills of emotional highs and lows. Compatibility is extremely important as I am not a hyper sexual person in general but as attraction develops I become very submissive, eager to please and even obsessed. 😅
Qualities I’m attracted to:
- Intelligence, general knowledge and especially an understanding of psychology or STEM related fields.
- Level headed, unemotional, usually a man of few words but when inspired, incredibly skilled at communication. It drives me crazy and keeps me wondering.
- Blunt honesty. Compliments and criticism are real and heartfelt.
- Father figure type. Derives satisfaction from teaching and is stern but patient.
- Generally empathetic. Sexually cruel, selfish and demanding but otherwise caring.
Full disclosure: I have BPD and Asperger’s so I am a work in progress but I have been told I have a learner’s mindset so I keep open to suggestion as much as possible.
I’m a lover girl at heart and seeking to establish a real relationship based on trust and mutual understanding. Those who are dear to my heart will never become disposable. It’s a rare find but invaluable. That being said, I won’t be able to relocate until January.
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