Hello! So, first about me:
I'm aromantic first and foremost and uninterested in any romantic relationship. I also have a pretty low sex drive, thus the platonic aspect of this. I also experience little physical attraction, likely placing me somewhere along the asexual spectrum.
I'm 20, a busy college student who is small and petite. A newfound runner as well as someone who likes gaming (BG3 is a current favorite) and has a decent amount of experience with TTRPGs (don't really like DnD, but I have a lot of love for other systems).
Most of my other hobbies are fairly hands on, so gardening, cooking, drawing, and more. I also love the oxford comma.
Sex education along with BDSM and kink have been things I've loved learning about for a while now. I'm inexperienced in all of these but appreciate being able to talk and learn about them.
I'm a switch who's only recently began exploring her Domme side, thus this post.
What I'm looking for:
Preferably someone close to my age who's also interested in non-sexual dynamics. Someone inexperienced who would like to learn with me sounds lovely, but someone who's experienced who would like to offer some advice or guidance could also be ideal.
Most of what I'm looking for is a bit flexible. I'd like to explore non-sexual domination, be that giving tasks throughout the day, choosing outfits, or other things that I either can't think of right now or learn about. If you're thinking this all sounds vague, you'd be right! I'm not entirely sure what this may end up being, but I'd like to find out.
Again, this is non-sexual. I may send photos (outfits, fun things, not nudes) but don't really care if you do. Like I said, I don't experience much physical attraction and I've felt extremely awkward having someone I'm speaking to send me photos of themselves expecting me to be attracted to them.
What I believe I'm looking for right now is someone to explore and grow with as I discover what domination means to me and hopefully as the other person discovers and learns about their own submission.
There will be a lot of talking before anything gets settled on, as you can tell by how much writing and information I've put down. I'm very wordy!
Thank you for my very earnest and probably scattered post :)
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