...but I'm a dude posting to a personals site, so I guess I must have at least some masochist in me as well.

So, there we are together. We've just finished a nice walk down from some peak in the alps. Nothing too high, and we make it back with plenty of time to stop off at a little bistro. I'm having a rump steak and ordered you the goulasch. You made fun of the fact that I forgot the plasters and my feet hurt, again. I make fun of the fact you think those are real hiking boots. By the time we are done with our meal it is cold out, and we have an in joke about me lending you my jacket. You put my jacket on and I smile. I enjoy taking care of you, and you enjoy that I've gotten sweaty and you can smell me on it.

We return to our little guest house, and, as we discussed on our walk, you kneel by the door inside. What happens next? Well I said I was sadistic, but I'll keep this somewhat PG-13. I spank you, I slap you, I use every hole in your body to please myself because you are mine. I use you to gratify myself in the ways I like. You struggle, determined to please me exactly how I desire but aware that I enjoy it when you have to work for my pleasure.

Then we clean up, snuggle, put on a movie and chat shit about everything and nothing until we doze off.

Let's get the must haves and hard limits out the way early on to save some time. I'm looking for something in the context of a LTR, short of TPE but not bedroom only. I require oral, including ingestion of semen, verbal and physical humiliation and degradation, as well as openness to anal and watersports. Multiple partners are a no go, as is anything likely to cause permanent damage. I'm 40, a male dominant, I have experience in years but not in terms of number of partners as I'm serially monogamous, I'm overweight, and I never want children. I am 5'9". As much as I joked at the start, I haven't a masochist bone in my body.

Sound like something you want? Drop me a message.