24 F lifestyle sub on east coast

Hi!

I’m searching for a lifestyle Dominant for a longterm relationship with power exchange features and someone who is somewhat sadistic (as I have strokes of masochism)—preferably with an age gap. Someone who is creative, thoughtful, understanding, moderately adventurous, pensive at times, maybe a little brash but nurturing overall. Supportive and protective. Openly affectionate. Someone that wants to share most things and who wants to be creative with me. Someone who will guide me but still want to hear my ideas.

Stability and structure are paramount to me. I do well with regiments and schedules. Therefore, I derive a lot of enjoyment from protocols/rules, anything ritual based—which imo, are often themes within the BDSM world. Having a stricter dominant is important to me. Someone who is thoughtful in their ways.

I’m petite, slim, medium length brown hair and brown eyes. Attractive and fit. I’m feminine but not extremely girly. Monogamy is important to me. Pretty kinky and into things like domestic discipline and maintenance spankings. Open to relocation. I’d like children and don’t mind if you already have them.

I like reading, stem, I’m outdoorsy. I like to hike and do all of the outside sports like kayaking and running. Love dancing. I like to travel, going to museums. I like building things. I love learning. Looking for someone who can show me their interests and share them too. I can be reserved but once I feel comfortable I’m very effusive and affectionate. Once you’re in my heart, I’m very dedicated and focused on keeping you happy and pleasing you. Sometimes in this I can neglect my own needs and so I need someone who is also concerned with making sure I’m fulfilled and cared for.

I think for me, my deepest form of submission is reserved and invited out when I feel safest. I know I’m safe when someone is consistent and they take the time to understand me and prioritize me in a way I can see. I think my strong suits would be that: I’m an attentive listener, I can be very supportive, I get extremely focused on my dominant (as opposed to being distracted by other “options”), I can pretty easily assimilate and prioritize my D’s values to be in alignment. I’m pretty open and super curious (love learning as aforementioned) so I love finding out your ways and understanding you. I want to be a reprieve for whoever I’m with.

Sometimes I get wobbly and need reassurance more than I should. But I also require someone who is okay with that and who works through the adversity that can sometimes accompany long term relationships. Which is only what I seek. If you’re stable and steadfast, I’d probably adore you.